Juz broke up with b/f of 4mths over something stupid. I pampered him like crazy, even ignored the fact that he's in touch with a string of ex g/f & flings on regular basis. YET, he luv 2 insult me & joked about getting a 'b'- job at work, shagging some whore, etc. He's always moody. He luv 2 twist facts & put the blame on me when we fight & throw me of the house. Despite all these, I loved him (or pitied) coz no shrink cld help him. He was abused as a child. Although I'm cyclothymic, I'm on meds and I know I'm stable. But he'd use my illness against me. He's insecure, jealous & violent. I know he's no gd 4 me but I can't help thinking bout him. Also, he did put in efforts & tried to be better but i guess its 2 lil 2 late. He told me b4 I'm a gd g/f & he's lucky to hv me. I felt more like his mom than g/f tho, and he actually called me mom! Qn. I miss him & m resisting urge 2 call him. He's from hell...but.. kinda sad puppy, no family, no real frenz. How now?
2006-09-14 04:01:32 · 9 answers · asked by Nemrac666 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Irony is, I'm a graduate, have a good job, cooked & cleaned for him & I'm not bad looking either. Nothing like gals he'd dated b4. Maybe he thinks I'm too gd 4 him and my sick mind tells me I deserved him.
Oh but he can b funny & cute at times.
I can be evil too, like the last time I was so pissed off I told him again & again how stupid he was, knowing he has an esteem problem.
Logically & selfishly, I should leave him for good. Gonna focus on that and stop caring & worrying bout him. *sigh
2006-09-14 04:34:36 · update #1
no u shoudl not ~ just hang on concentarte on ur work keep urself busy u have shwon your love to him now let him feel the void in his life now it is his turn
if he doenot feel it ............then believe ...........he never loved you
u can always find some better more lovin for urself
u know thats you can trust urself for that
2006-09-14 04:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by may_minu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt think of that various of him to talk to others, the place became you taking the chat too?? my ex did this and met them and slept with them, as quickly as a cheat, hes desirable off with out you, like i'm with out him,
2016-11-07 07:44:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is jus not the right guy for u.. i dunno how u still remember him after he has done so much like blaming u for everything.... anywayz, i think u hav more of a soft corner for him... u should b commited once u enter a relationship ... i dnt think he is ,as u r......may b his brought up is so.... u can help him by getting him to a psychologist....... but jus go on with ur life... keep ur self engaged with things... so u r not reminded of him.... time is the best healer... all the best... its jus my suggestion....
2006-09-14 04:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by kirthu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone--Find somebody new that will treat you right and you'll wonder why you ever put up with him
2006-09-14 04:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by j_911_rhoads 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go gal.... yeah he is this and that but he actually is using u here..He dont deserve u... mebbe u cud b a friend not sumn else
2006-09-14 04:05:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dat dude is no good yo leave him along real talk
2006-09-14 04:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go call
2006-09-14 04:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him ... this is what you feel
2006-09-14 04:05:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a stupid post! You are a pathetic masochist if you call him. Please don't call this loser.
2006-09-14 04:04:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋