he offers no solutions and all he could say was i'll call you morrow and you haven't heard from him in the last 24hrs.
2006-09-14 03:47:29 · 33 answers · asked by candy girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait another day, he maybe just needs some time to work things out in his head. If he still hasn't called you the next day then call him and make him tell you whats going on. He can't run away from this, it's his responsibility too. But don't feel pressured to do something you don't want to.
2006-09-14 03:50:55 · answer #1 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey he may be thinking it over. You know that is a pretty big shocker. Or he may never talk to you again. I hate to break it to you sweety, but I know so many teen mothers that are raising there babies all alone. I am sorry but that is the way it usually happens. All that you can make him do is pay child support and sometimes that can be very difficult. But I am not trying to get you down. He may be great! He may just be scared and will come around eventually. Only time will tell what he will do. But please, if you are considering abortion, DONT! Your child deserves a chance at life!! What if your mom had done that to you? I know lots of teens think that is a quick fix, but it's not. Anyways, Good Luck!
2006-09-14 03:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Brown_Eyed_Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably thinking how to deal with the load he just dropped in his pants and how to remain consious with the wave of nausea and oncomming blackout hitting all at once.
Seriously tho:
He's probably overwhelmed and just has no idea how to deal yet. Give him a bit of time. Let it sink it. It is serious stuff for some. Let him think it over. Don't pressure him too much. After a week or so ask if he'd like to talk about it.
2006-09-14 03:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by floridajunkiegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a little time to adjust to the situation. I'm not saying months, but he might need a few days of soul searching. If you don't hear back from him, don't call him, but just stop by and see if he has any input about the situation. Hopefully he will be ready to talk about it, and you can discuss all of the options! Good luck with him and "our"decision. Take Care!
2006-09-14 03:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a job if you don't have one already. He is in shock or is thinking how he is going to handle this. The delay reminds me of what happened with my then fiance, now husband, when I first told him I thought I was pregnant. What I did when he still didn't talk to me about it or acknowledge it (a week later, after I took a home test) was brush him off as I went out the door to go find a job. Then he got interested again.
2006-09-14 03:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as if your boyfriend is not ready for parenthood. He seems to be upset. Congratulations on your good news though. Children are so precious. Just be careful next time. The next father of your child should be your husband or at the very least someone who is willing to take the responsibility of raising a child. Good luck to you.
2006-09-14 03:51:26 · answer #6 · answered by ♪♫♪justpassingby♪♫♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh I've thought about this scenario more than once and I think that if he doesn't say anything, he's either going to leave you, scared out of his mind, and/or speechless and just doesn't know what to say. All of these could probably apply. I wish you luck in your future and hope your boyfriend stays with you to help take care of your child. Good luck girl!
2006-09-14 03:50:19 · answer #7 · answered by Dayzi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he needs time for it to sink in. Sounds as though he might be in a little bit of shock!
I would keep trying to get a hold of him and explain that you both need to talk quietly to come up with a plan in which the both of you can feel comfortable with the change of life!
Best of luck!
2006-09-14 03:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably needs some time to deal with the shock. I'm sure the pregnancy wasn't planned. Give him a week, and then try contacting him. If he doesn't support you, you'll have to get it legally. The same thing happened to a friend of mine, and now she is living with him.... and he wants more kids.
2006-09-14 03:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy2Liam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably packed up his **** and got the hell out of dodge. What you will probably be faced with is a long battle of a paternity test and a looooooooooooong wait for some child support.
2006-09-14 03:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋