Ok I have been with my fiance for three years now. We just bought a house together. My question is we have a next door neighbor who has a man but he lives miles away from her. My finace has been talking to her a little more than I feel he should be. He has worked on her corvette for her but bitches at me when I need him to fix simple things on our family car. He is using one of her trucks today to get a engine hoist for his truck that is down. He seems more and more to be talking to her. Don't get me wrong he is a good guy and I have never thought he would be the unfaithfull type. My question is am I being to paranoid or do I have good reason to be upset.
We do not have children together but we do have my two that live with us.
2006-09-14 03:16:07 · 25 answers · asked by Heidi B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its ok to be friendly with neighbors but maybe this is too much. Confront him about it.. Or at least keep a close eye on him.. Good luck
2006-09-14 03:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by momof3isme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will change my hair style, take care of myself more than before. People living together for sometime it became the routine. Try to find some excitement. Find some activities which both of you have to do together. Gave him big smile when he arrived home. You can be upset but don't show it to him. To my opinion he got such a big heart to accept you with your two kids. Don't forget to let him know that you are very proud of him. Most of men prefer to be the leader at home...so let he be. Never show to him that you are capable more than him. I think he likes the helpless style (woman) same as your neighbor. Last but not least...try to be with them whenever he is there. I might be wrong.
2006-09-14 10:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by pimpa1949 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not being paranoid. Your man is to involved with this woman. Be careful, she might be giving him other things too. The warning signs are there. Do you have a single male neighbor who you can do things for him, just like your fiance is doing for her. Maybe this will open his eyes.
2006-09-14 10:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep an eye out, but it doesn't sound like too big of a deal. Maybe she's being nice to him to get him to do stuff for her. Besides, it's always nicer to get along with your neighbors than to just ignore each other like many of us do.
2006-09-14 10:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by Nc Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be furious. I had a b/f like that he would do stuff for everyone else but me. I didn't understand it. It makes you feel like you were unimportant. Tell him that you are concerned and would like him to do the stuff for you first then her. If he puts up his defense then he's not the one for you. There is plenty of guys out there that would treat you much better then this. Good luck.
2006-09-14 10:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, if you have a feeling something is wrong, it is. I was with someone who I thought was the type that would never cheat and he had me fooled. Usually a woman has a sense about these things and you should follow it.
2006-09-14 10:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by caramel_sundae1077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry if he said there is nothing to worry about. my boyfriend is the same way. he is always doing things for other people and not doing the things that need done here. some men are like that. but don't worry it will all work out. also you try to be friends with her also and if she doesn't want to be friends with you then let him know that and he should back off if there is nothing going on.
2006-09-14 10:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by kathy froggylady40 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to find a male neighbor and cook him dinner or clean his laundry for him and see how your fiance feels about that. Bet it will put a stop to your problem.
2006-09-14 10:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by VeeateU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not jump to coclusion unless you have reason to worry. It may be simple cortesy talk. There has to be trust between partners for the relation to be long lasting. Be watchful but not suspicious.
2006-09-14 10:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch the situation close i have heard it happening more than once ,twice and over three times . i don't know what it is about neighbors . i don't have any maybe for a reason. but don't make an issue out of it but watch it close. he could be just nice to a neighbor but .............be carefull
2006-09-14 10:21:39 · answer #10 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋