I have met a guy i have been sleeping with him for about a month only once a week. He has taken me out once for drinks etc. I always seem to go home with him after a night out in town. He has a busy job so he never seems to have time. When i stay at his house, i stay with him until about 12 in the afternoon then he takes me home. He has a girlfirend but only see's her twice a week and says they are more like friends now but he doesn't want to hurt her by breaking up with her, i have just split up with my partner who is friends with the guy i have been meeting. He is always really nice to me giving me compliments, and talking to me, some of the things he says give me the impression that he likes me, we get on really well with each other.
He asked me what i want out of this with him? i said i dont know and asked him and asked if it was just sex n he said no. Why was he asking this?
He also said its good when you meet your match but it hard taking the risk? What did he mean by this
2006-09-14 03:12:17 · 53 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just sex sorry to break it to you
2006-09-14 03:13:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm let's see, he has a girlfriend, says she's more like a friend and sleeps with you and you wonder if he wants a relationship? LOL. Come on. He obviously just wants sex.
My question to you is, if he cheats on the woman he's with now, what makes you think he won't do the same to you?
Why are some of you women so desperate?
2006-09-14 03:17:05 · answer #2 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend but he doesn't want to hurt her by breaking up with her. Well for starters give him 1st prize for originality and now tell him to get knotted for not having a back bone!
I'm sorry hon, but if you were to take a step back and see this from someone else's perspective, you'd see what everyone can see...he's using you and men have a habit of telling you what you want to hear in order to get into your knickers, AND being very convincing.
There isn't a girl alive who hasn't been sucked in by someone like this. Move on pet, you deserve better
2006-09-14 03:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by mother knowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the girlfriend I feel sorry for!
Everyone is saying that you deserve better than this guy, but to be honest I think you deserve each other.....
Anyone willing to sleep with someone in the knowledge that they have a partner deserves everything they get, not meaning to be harsh and you are probably a nice person, but you should have had more self respect than that!
2006-09-14 04:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by neen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is only interested in the sex since he already has another girlfriend; I don't know why you started seeing him in the first place, especially if you were interested in starting to see him romantically. Most likely, this guy is a player and even if he dumps his current girlfriend to go out with you, what is going to stop him from doing the same thing to you?
2006-09-14 03:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never sleep with a guy that you havent been with for at least a year. not to sound like a prude but thats the only way to see if a guy truely is serious about you. and what r u doing with someone elses man dont you know that if woman cant stick together than who can. you wouldnt want someone to do that to you. what if shes cheating on him with someone dirty, or maybe your not the only other girl. stay clean and respect yourself.
2006-09-14 03:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by starfox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to be so blunt, but why do you think he only sees you once a week and doesn't want to split up with his girlfriend????SEX and if he only sees his girlfriend twice a week and you once a week , WHAT DOES HE DO ON THE OTHER 4 DAYS OF THE WEEK??? probably sex with 4 different other women, do yourself a favour and find somebody else who can devote the whole week to you good luck
2006-09-14 03:19:27 · answer #7 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more about sex, if he didn't want to be with the other person he would break up with her.
Either accept what is happening or stop wasting your time. I don't think you should stay over with him if it is only sex though. In the long run you're probably wasting your time.
CT
2006-09-14 03:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sex he doesn't have a busy job he is busy with each woman.you can only go to his home if you go out with him and you have to check out by 12 noon.try popping up over there and try staying after 12 and see what happens.
2006-09-14 03:18:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup you're being used for sex - and if you're gullible enough to believe that he cant "hurt" his girlfriend by breaking up - you're also stupid.
This is WHY guys cheat - theres always a girl like you who knows the situation and is ready to be taken advantage of.
Grow a backbone and walk away from him - how would you feel if you were his girlfriend ??? Exactly.....
Find yourself a man that WILL take you out on dates and one that isnt allready taken. And get a bit of respect for yourself - if you're going to act like a prostitute at least get paid for it
2006-09-14 04:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u give a man what he wants that is what is satisfying him. So don;t give it to him and u will see whats good. Besides if he has a girl and is sleeping with u 2 it should be obvious what he wants. DOES SHE KNOW ABOUT U? that's ur answer believe it and accept it and move on.
2006-09-14 03:19:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋