I'm not blowing my own trumpet, without looking like brad pitt, i'm not ugly. I have a sucuessful career as a massage therapist in the spa industry. I constantly make people around me laugh, i reckon i'm a decent fella. It just seems that every time i'm keen on a girl, she's not interested in me. i'd really love to be in a relationship, and i've dated girls who like me, but who did not really catch my interest, hopeing that something might come of it, but my hearts not really in it, so i end it after a few outings. How can i change this???
2006-09-14 03:08:51 · 7 answers · asked by floyd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you say you are keen on a girl....how do you express this keeness? The only thing I can think of is that maybe you come on too strong?
Try playing the next keen girl slightly cool. Be interested but hold yourself back so that you can pick up signals of her liking you. I have noticed many guys who are so into the pursuit of a woman that they don't pay attention to or give her any time to send her signals back. If you find yourself doing most of the talking, back off....ask her questions that require her to give longer answers. Make sure she is active in the dating process...let her pick where to go etc. Let her call you for a date every once in a while.
Girls like to be pursued, but to a degree. Good luck dude.
2006-09-14 03:19:07 · answer #1 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, from what I gathered from above, it seems like this is more of a problem with yourself than it is with the people you are dating. Maybe you are finding something wrong with these people and ending it or maybe you are just meeting the wrong type of people.
I recommend trying online dating, if you haven't already. You will go on a ton of dates and meet interesting women who you could potentially click with. Great thing about some of these sites (like match.com or lavalife.com) is that you can see their profile and find out what they are like; unlike meeting someone at a bar and just asking for their phone number.
Good luck.
2006-09-14 10:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not doing anything wrong except thinking you are.before you know it some nice girl will see this successful guy who is maybe just as handsome as brad pitt & he makes every one laugh. wow what a catch!!! just enjoy your dates & when the right one turns up you will know,its when your're not looking it happens
2006-09-14 17:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry too much. You have to stop looking too hard your young so just go out and enjoy yourself, and a girlfriend will come along in the most unlikely place and when you least expect it
2006-09-14 10:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by spunkster12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is like programming
If Rich then Success
else then Handsome
else then Humour
else then Honest
else then Always Smile,
if not all above, i'm sorry for you man.
2006-09-14 10:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by Didie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant, stop looking, let the game come to you!
good luck ^^
2006-09-14 10:13:42 · answer #6 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not you, it is your choice in people
2006-09-14 10:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋