I need some creative ideas to try in bed (or anywhere else)....?

Question

I'm quite experienced when it comes to sex and there isn't much I haven't tried at one point or another. The thing is I know there are things I haven't done. I want to completely surprise my bf with new moves/positions/techniques. We've tried toys, role playing, etc. Any ideas that are out of the norm? Thanks in advance!

P.S. We are not into p*ssing or sh*tting on each other so don't bother saying it. I will give the 10pts for the answer I like best. Thanks again!!

I appreciate all the responses but There still isn't anything that is really new. We've done some kama sutra (which is great!), some bondage (to the extent we're comfortable with), even outdoors (like on his four wheeler - that was fun!) and threesomes as well. I'm stumped.

Answer 1

I am really unsure what you haven't tried .. so I can only throw a couple of suggestions your way.

With oral .. try hot and cold
Positions - get a book from Kama Sutra (needless to say there are countless positions and always fun to try)
Go outdoors ... be bold and have fun with it
Get a subscription to Cosmo (needless to say they always have tips, techniques and a new position monthly)
Get a dvd that teaches you how to strip and get a stripper pole inside your bedroom.
Check out the Liberator Products (highly recommend)
Add to your toys, get the swing
Try Japanese Silk Ropes

101 tricks to try before you die http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,426380_700648,00.html

6 games to play
http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,426367_641447,00.html

~ Mel

Answer 2

Try true love, it hurts more than anything you will ever know! There is no end to the feeling.

True Love's the gift that God has given
to Man alone beneath the Heavens
It is not Fantasy's Hot Fire
Whose Wishes, as soon as grant'd, fly
It Liveth not in Fierce Desire
With Desire Dead, it does not Die
It is the Secret Sympathy,
the Silver Link - The Silken Tie
Which Heart to Heart and Mind to Mind
in Body and in Soul can Bind

- from 'Lay of the Last Minstrel' by Sir Walter Scott

Any feeling you will ever experience pales when compared to the agony and ecstasy of Love. The link below c1570 may be of interest. The ideas you are looking for go back a few years.

Answer 3

we had the same stuck issue a year back we tried all and it was kinda monotonous cuz in relationship of six year you hv exhausted your creativity... then we explored option of swinging, initially we thought it will be bullshit but let me tell the more we grew into it the more we like it, it has spiced our sex life by 10000 times.. trust me and try throwing this idea to your partner.. really variety is the spice.. intially u can start with soft swing by just attending swinger clubs and meeting them and seeing couples exchanging partners , then try putting off your inhibitions and u will hv a blast... intially i used to think i will be jealous to see my wife doing with other men but trust me thats the most interesting sight.. now year down the line i dont even know how many guys she have done or how many girls i hv done ..in this bargain we made some true good friends whom we respect and (f--k) also . girl at least once in life do it...u will remeber my advise.

Answer 4

Abstain for a certain period of time.

What I mean by that is still "fool around" without any oral favors or penetration.

By the time you get nekkid again it will make it not only hotter by similiar to your 1st time together!

If this doesn't work then may I suggest an ez glider, blue food coloring, blindfold and whip cream. If you need instructions feel free to e-mail me.

Answer 5

Hmmm...nice idea

Well, do either of you enjoy bondage? (nothing earth shattering, but alot of men get aroused and intrigued when their lady gets dominant and aggressive in bed). It is kind of an extension of a role play I suppose, you could add your own flavor to it, blindfolds can be erotic as well, tie him to the bed, tell him not to say a word, and just...take over! Then you can switch roles sometime, depending on your comfort level...have fun!

Answer 6

Well, the one thing you haven't mentioned yet is light S&M play; I don't mean that you should throw on some leather chaps and make him lick your high heels (unless you want him too). Instead, you can tie him up and tease him until he explodes; you can include feather play, wax, etc. Once you are done with that, you can then hop on top.

Give it a shot, it might be something he's not expecting.

Answer 7

Have you tried dressing up and role playing in a very out of the ordinary place? For instance you suprise him by wearing your sexy outfit under a trench coat, drive him to a destination, beach, hotel etc strip him and then yourself and role play that way.

Answer 8

Just repeat the ones that were exceptionally special.
That could also be very lovely
Well for one, I dont know what you have done or haven't done - it's a whole universe out there...

Have you tried a 3some of any kind?

Answer 9

Two words, Kama Sutra.

You havent tried it all if you never read the book. Cheers.

Answer 10

men love oral,be sitting in kitchen and naked[both]Having breakfast!Casully go under table and start giving him excellant Head,Have clod Hersey Surup handy,use it on him and lick every drop off,of course do not let him now your Plain at all,it will totally shock him and blow he,s mind and then you,ll be amazed at what Kinky Idea he,ll end up doing on you because of your actions he,ll be so relaxed he,ll now anything goes!a every time he thinks of being with you,I Guaranty He,ll remember that morn. and Smile!Take him By SURPRISE!Good luck!Hollywood!