Right then. I had two girls at work after my bod. I've made them both a cup of tea and told them that although they are both amazingly attractive (they're models) I really can't date girls I work with.
Now they've gone and told me that they're happy just to have a night of fun with me.
I feel they're not getting the message. I told them NO, but now they both look so upset. How can I make them feel better?
2006-09-14 02:51:55 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A night of fun doesn't necessarily mean sex you know.
Anyway, we've discussed it, and think it's better to remain the good friends we already are. We're all looking at this now and we're off to the pub in a minute.
Oh, and for those who think I'm making this up, I pity your sad lives. Jealousy will destroy you.
Or, just e-mail me and I'll send you the picture we're going to take of the 3 of us in the pub.
See ya.
Bob
2006-09-14 03:33:26 · update #1
Tell them a white lie, that you have a new girlfriend and your really into her.
2006-09-14 02:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥Squirrel ♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite them over to your place an hour apart, with the hottest/nicest on first. When the first one gets there, tell her you really want to just have one night of great sex and thats it and if she doesnt argue, ask her how she feels about another girl being there? Models are usually open to this. When the second gets there, ansewer the door in just your robe while the other girls still in your bed, and bring girl number two in and just start kissing her in front of girl #1 who's already been warmed up.... damn wish I was girl #1... hahaha have fun!
2006-09-14 02:56:52 · answer #2 · answered by Slutlana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Wonky Bob, like I said before, ignore the haters. I'm sure they would kill to be in your position, but alas, God didn't give them our superior genes that attract the fine young ladies wherever we go.
If those girls are so into you, then they should be honored to be in your presence. I'd make them pay your way and see if they get the message that your time is precious and will cost them $. When I felt that I clearly had the upper-hand in a relationship, I would force my dates to pay my way and shower me with gifts... otherwise, it was onto the next girl who was either better-looking, a better lay, or more desperate to do anything to please me. Good luck!
2006-09-15 02:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by Bedroom Celebrity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them in the long run it'll be better cos there'll be no awkwardness when it's over. now do they want a piece of cake with that tea...sorry, forgot they were models...perhaps a carrot?
Failing that, tell them to grow up cos whining and sulking isn't an attractive trait and even the most beautiful women can look ugly when they are being unpleaseant
2006-09-14 03:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by mother knowledge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o well now u have said NO they know where they stand...doesnt matter if they look upset, they have to learn tough love and to get there love out of the work place and not in it, just because they are upset means they are not used to being rejected let this be a lesson to them, they cant have what they want all the time
2006-09-14 02:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't
When women get turned down sexually, its a big hit to the ego.
Stand on your principals darlin, don't give into a 'nite of fun' as all of your good and bad will be office talk the next day.
2006-09-14 02:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by jelli_bean_36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wonky bob are you single? if so and you do think they are attractive, what are you doing!!!! do you know how many blokes would love an offer like that. If you are concerened with there being an uneasy feeling afterwards you have to weigh up the pros and cons and believe me from what you have said the pros definatly outweigh the cons good luck what ever you do
2006-09-14 02:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by spunkster12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the Q then BIG HEAD. I pity your sad life that you have to come on here expecting everyone to be jealous of you. Well we are not so shove that where the sun don't shine you t**t.
True beauty is on the inside. so if they are models then they must be a right pair of dumb bimbo's
2006-09-14 03:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by 90210 aka Hummer Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you telling porkies?
If not have a night of fun with them both thats the best way to keep them happy.
2006-09-14 02:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by tfd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that unless you want a couple of bunny boilers on your hands, you are going to have to submit to their vile demands. Make sure you have a good shower afterwards.
2006-09-14 03:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by Roger B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont sound like they care about what u think. u could always just go out on a date and see
2006-09-14 02:55:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋