2006-09-14 02:50:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
mom can i get u to sit down, i got some very serious matter to discuss with u, remember u told me to be honest with u & that i can always come to u for anything. i don't want u to over react or go crazy. i need u to be calm & able to help me to calmly work out a solution that i so desperately need from u now. ok brace yourself mom.
ps speak slowly & maintain eye contact always. u sit down next to her. don't delay, no matter how frightening it is. let the cat out if the bag while it still alive to avoid your mom finding the stench in the bag later. rember she might be angry but coz she love u it will subside & she will be supportive.
good luck & peace, lady
2006-09-14 03:12:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The following are the questions you have asked, in the order you asked them…
How can you tell when it is the right time to tell someone you love them?
What do you think is the right age to get married?
What age do you think people should have children?
How can I tell my mom I am pregnant?
The first question was asked five months ago…
The last three questions have all been asked within the past twenty minutes (each of them two minutes apart).
You haven’t given any additional information in any of the questions you have asked, so people are left to question… how old are you?… do you still go to school?… who is the father?… does your mum know the father?… does the guy know you are pregnant?…are you sure you are pregnant?… how long have you known the father for?… what were the circumstances leading up to the pregnancy?… did you try to take any precautions to prevent you getting pregnant? what do you plan to do about the baby?
And probably a heap more questions that your mother would need to know the answers of.
I’m not a mum (wrong sex to start with) so I am not too sure of what the best way of easing the shock is going to be.
I’d suggest you pick a quiet moment… perhaps tell your mum that you need to talk to her, and maybe take her to your bedroom where you can both sit down on the bed.
You are just going to have be straight out and honest with your mum.
I can’t tell you what her reaction is going to be like.
Much will depend on how young you are.
She will probably be shocked….
If you are still at school age, her initial response could suggest she is disgusted and ashamed of you (Part of the shock!)
She may be angry and disappointed in you.
I mean, depending on your age, and what she knew of your relationship with the father, she could also be excited… proud… whatever.
Anyway, as I said, you just have to be straight out and honest with her.
Hopefully, she will be supportive of you, because I have a feeling you are going to need her to be very supportive, not only of you, but of the baby as well.
Good luck !!!
2006-09-14 10:00:33 · answer #2 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I ask you how old you are? If your just a kid sorry to hear that you have gotten yourself in this situation it's not a easy one but you can be successful non the less. You need to be responsible for you actions, and be adult about it. Tell her you have something serious that you need to talk to her about and sit down and just tell her. I know that this is going to be really hard for you depending on the situation but you also need to be adult about it and take this matter in your own hands. Your going to have a child and you should have your mother to talk to about it. She will probably get a little angry, or just a wide mix of emotions but in the end she is your mother and will hopefully work through it all with you. Good luck Hun, and take it one day at a time.
2006-09-14 10:01:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jessye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 when I got pregnant so I was scared to death to tell her. So I wrote her a letter asking that she please support me and be there for me. I told her I needed her not to judge me or be mad at me ect.... etc.. then I put the test and the letter in the envelope and left it for her on the kitchen table!
2006-09-14 10:15:10 · answer #4 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are perhaps a teen? If you have an older sibling it is advisable to tell them first and ask them to go tell your mom. If not, ask a trusted relative.
2006-09-14 10:06:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "Mom, I'm pregnant."
How else, honestly? Smoke signals? A telegram?
2006-09-14 09:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Seneca 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Refer to her as grandma alot.
She will get the hint,
2006-09-14 14:42:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy... when you next see her, say "hi , grandma!!!"
2006-09-14 10:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i know how old are you???
2006-09-14 10:14:07 · answer #9 · answered by jasmine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋