i know - as ive been single myself many times for long periods over the years. i think ive just been afraid of committment - it freaks me out!!
2006-09-14 02:49:37 · 9 answers · asked by Frankie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i think so. but it changes overtime. some people just have other priorities than being in a relationship. there will come a time that you will feel more ready to commit. some people knew a lot of failed relationships from other people so they become more choosy and single. on my part, i know there's something missing but i'm still happy. when the man for me comes, i will be glad to let down my guard. people who are single most of the time are just being overly cautious. not that they don't want to love. they are looking for something substantial that they might call and don't want to waste their time hurting more. some fear rejection so to pre-empt this, they will reject first to feel safe. because of that, they become single always. one way to overcome it i think is to be true to ourselves, strong enough to take responsibility of our feelings other than the other person's feelings. focus more on what you can gain than what you can lose.
2006-09-14 03:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by поцелуй 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person..Everyone has their own reasons for being single. Personally, I like being alone sometimes and free to do what I want. Also, I can't imagine being able to stay with one person forever...I am afraid I would get bored, but I don't think that makes me a committment phobe. I am not afraid of commitment just the responsibilities that go with it. I am also afraid to share all of myself with someone.
2006-09-14 03:00:55 · answer #2 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well that might be true for you! but I dont htink just b.c your single you are anit -committment. I think when you are single you have an agenda of what you want and then someday something comes your way either just what you want or nothing like it. One way or another you find what you need.
2006-09-14 02:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not. I just haven't met someone I'd want to settle down with. I'm dating someone who could be eventually but not right now. I'd love to committ to him once I know he's the one I want.
2006-09-14 02:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's good to be single sometimes...take time for some self examination...and perhaps be better prepared for the next relationship.
2006-09-14 08:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YEAH A LOT OF people have commitment issues
2006-09-14 02:55:27 · answer #6 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds better to say that we "thrive on variety." ;)
I don't know if I'm afraid of commitment, it just seems so boring...I'm not sure I could be with one person for the rest of my life.
2006-09-14 02:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by Taryn M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because you have been programmed from beginning by using society to choose husband and young little ones and domesticity............i guess the 1st toy u had replaced right into a doll...........reliable 4 u for thinking it and bypass and function some secure exciting.
2016-12-12 08:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you haven't met the right person.
2006-09-14 04:04:34 · answer #9 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋