why do men cheat on women??

Question

can ya'll not stay with one person? and why can't ya'll make it work with a good woman instead of leaveing with trash? i mean i am not tring to be rude it was just on my mind cuz i just dumped my boyfriend of 3 years cuz i found out he was cheating and i was just wondering about it. cuz i just can't understand why men have to be like that.
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Answer 1

Generally men would do something like that for so many reasons. These reasons can vary among the influence of friends, upbringing (if they see their parents and/or siblings doing it, why can't they?), weakness of the flesh, boredom (or falling out of love) in the current relationship, and standard of living giving enough money to support more than 1 partner.
But most of the time, it's more of the boredom in the current relationship. Their partners also play a role for them to seek attention from other woman who can actually make them more alive and young. This is why a good communication between partners is very important, for them to be able to discuss their likes, dislikes and expectations in a relationship in such a way that both of them will not be tempted to be with somebody else.

Answer 2

Not all men cheat, or all women cheat, but it happens. Maybe he wasn't being fulfilled at home. Some men need more than one woman to feel complete. I don't know why any man would WANT more than one woman, one bi.tching all the time would be enough for me. Don't take that personal, it's a part of all women. There's a little moodiness in all of us, due to having to put up with men is my excuse...lol Anyway, you did the right thing by leaving him. Just look for the signs next time you're in a relationship, be leary, and don't trust so easily. It's good to give 'em the benefit of a doubt, but when they misuse that trust, it's over! Sorry to hear about your loss, but there's someone out there for you that will give as much as he's receiving. Don't go looking for Mr. Right, cause you'll only end up with Mr. Wrong again. This time, try a different approach...let him come to you. Good luck in love and life!

Answer 3

Why does any person cheat on another person? This goes for men and women? You shouldn't put it all on men because women are just as bad. Maybe you should be asking your ex this question. Anyone will tell you it's not just men in general it's the individual that cheats. You take a risk getting involved with any man in the begining. That's just the downside to getting involved with someone because you just don't know what's going to happen. Instead of asking the question you asked you should try keeping a more open mind, and be more positive about your situation. There are good men and then their are men like your ex, but don't label them all because of what happened to you. We all have had it happen at one point in our life, and a lot of men have got cheated on by a lot of women as well so get past this and take it as a blessing because atleast you don't have to go the rest of your life with a man that would have cheated on you over and over again.

Answer 4

I am sorry that you have to deal with such an awful situation. The reverse question can be asked about why women cheat on men just as much though.
Not all men cheat, just as all women do not cheat. Unfortunately, sometimes people just make mistakes or choices that are wrong, and do not consider the consequences the choices they make will incur.
Do not hold the actions of one man against all men. That, in the end, will only leave you sad, alone, and miserable. Pick yourself back up, brush yourself off, and find someone who truly loves you and will cherish you forever after.

peace

Answer 5

First off women do the same thing, my ex after 3.5 years was cheating with a guy for a few months! People cheat because people change. The trick to making a relationship work is the same trick for making marriage work, you have to change with your partner. As they take up new interests find out about it! SHow them you care, being in love is about learning how to show that person you love them in the manner they need. Everyone cheats! Men & women cheat , maybe men a little bit more but the reasons are all the same.

Answer 6

Women also cheat, however it is really hard for a man to be turned on by the same woman forever. A woman can always lie back and think of England, adding a few ohhs and arrs along the way. Men have to think of other women and need fuel for the fire.

Answer 7

ladies and men human beings cheat merely the comparable. there is not extra male cheaters and there is not extra woman cheaters. human beings cheat for a sort of reasons, and females and men human beings can cheat for the comparable reasons or different ones. As a guy you look biased in the direction of women human beings, and apparently via your question which you're bitter or cynical some lady cheating on your or somebody close to to you. you could desire to appreciate that the two ladies and men human beings have equivalent probabilities of cheating, it is not comparable to one intercourse is extra probably to cheat than the different.

Answer 8

For the same reason women cheat on men.Check the studies,when it comes to fidelity women are just as bad if not worse.Women are just more devious and don't get caught as easily.For every woman who degrades the men on this question,I'll bet 90% of them have been unfaithful to a man at sometime in their life.These same people will justify the act by blaming their partner at the time for pushing them to it.Age old question,w/ the same old answers.

Answer 9

For the same reasons that women cheat on men. They have no idea what it means to be faithful.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

You're better off without him. And take comfort in knowing that the woman he is with will ALWAYS KNOW that he's a cheater and will cheat on her too!

Answer 10

Truthfully I have no clue why men cheat. My boyfriend and I just split because he was cheating on me. I think they think they need to be with you and then they think when there not with you they have to be with someone else. Like if they really liked the other person why won't they just brake up with you to go out with them. Instead of cheating but no, they are guys.