2006-09-14 02:45:32 · 30 answers · asked by rainbow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd rather never experience love because you don't miss something that you've never experienced. Unfortunately I have been hurt before and I would have preferred never to have went through that...it was the most miserable time of my life!! It truly scarred me for life!! If you don't want to get burned you stay away from the fire! If you can't swim, stay outta the ocean! So I think I will stay away from love..I am not good at it!!
2006-09-14 02:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fall in love. Its a great feeling just don't rush into things. Love comes natural believe it or not u just have to be sure u have found a friend before u fall in love thats what people fail to realize. True friends are 4ever so ask ur self if u can stay friends with ur friend for along time imagine what ur love will be like. So therfore look for FRIENDS not LOVERS and it will come. You dont have to be with someone to be in love. I am 31 years old and my best friend is a GUY we had been friends for 3yrs and something happened we had such a good chemistry as friends we spent all our time together we did everthing together. He did him and I did me. But we understood and trusted each other. We had been friends for three yrs when we finally had decided to tell on another that we loved on another. We had actually both been feeling that way for about a year when one day he told me what was good and one thing lead to another. The sex was great the friendship was unbreakable and we have a 13 yr old son. And we are still in love with each other today. And our son was 7yrs old before I told him it was his because at that time we both were in relationships and what we did was unexpected. We have been BEST FRIENDS FOR 16 YRS AND IN LOVE FOR 14 OF THOSE YRS and we would not change our lives and our love for each other for no one. You know the funny part about it all we are not together today as a couple but the way we feel about each other is TRUE LOVE and thats hoe it feels when u are in LOVE there is a difference between being in love and being in LUST. But the decision not to be together was mutual and the love never died. So try finding a friend, do friend things and stay away from sexual desires and u will find true love and u will b guaranteed not to hurt one another.
2006-09-14 03:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say fall in love, I am currently seperated from my wife of 12 years and it hurts like no one can understand, Especially because I cannot make her see I still love her because her mother is convincing her otherwise, but I would not want to lose the last 12 years of my life or my 3 kids, besides if you find the right person maybe you can fall in love and not get hurt!!!
2006-09-14 03:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by jbrown280000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
practice makes perfect so i would fall in love and get hurt so i can better prepare for the next relationship. Never experience what love feels like would be like a huge loss in life for yourself.
2006-09-14 02:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by themysterious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I choose to fall in love. Falling in love is part of life just as making choices are part of liIfe. Should we choose to love, we have no guarantees that we will or won't get hurt....no matter how many promises are made to never hurt the other person. People are people and they will fail. What to do if you get hurt? Learn from it and move on.
2006-09-14 03:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by Liso 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prefer to fall in love and get hurt to see what it feel like. if u never been in love i feel like u have missed to boat. at least if u have before u know how it feels when u are and u know how to avoid getting hurt the next time around. but love feels great when it's right, just dont get it confused......
2006-09-14 02:49:15 · answer #6 · answered by sexygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely to fall in love and get hurt. It sucks when you're going through it, but it makes you stronger in the long run. Plus, look at everything you had when you were in love. Would you be the same person if you never experienced that? I wouldn't.
2006-09-14 02:47:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose to never experience what love feels like... the being let down by a person that loves you is not worth the pain experienced afterwards.
2006-09-14 02:49:06 · answer #8 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fall in love and get hurt of course. So during time you will learn more about yourself and experience even if there is a downfall.
2006-09-14 02:47:47 · answer #9 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no one wants to get hurt of course but everyone should at least try love because it is a wonderful experience and you never know you might not have to experience hurt you might luck up on the right one but you will never know if you don't try so to who ever is trying to experience love best of luck
2006-09-14 02:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by monica h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋