I am crazy in love with this girl and I am like 80% sure that she is not happy in her current 2-year relationship. Should I tell her how I feel about her? We are awesome friends so I don't want to put that at risk.
2006-09-14 02:18:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a hard situationi to be in......you are her friend. She counts on you for a lot, and to be there for her. Has she ever expressed an interest other than that?
You need to be there for her, listen to her, and continue to be her friend. If she is honestly not happy in her current relationship, then you need to stand by her, let her figure that out, but yes, it is ok to point out things that you see, but don't intentionally trash her boyfrined for your benefit, because it will blow up in your face.
Also.....don't let her run to you as a "rebound". If you are honestly her friend, then be her friend. If she breaks up with her boyfriend, then stand by her side. You can let her know how you feel, to an extent, but also let her know that you know she needs time to get over what has happened, and you respect her enough to give that to her. This will also keep YOU from getting hurt.
Good luck with everything.......
2006-09-14 02:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by diamond_deb_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stay friends with her. You don't want to be a rebound relationship they seldom succeed. She may not be happy in her current relationship but it is still up to her to put an end to it. Just be supportive of her and if she has a similar attraction to you she will appreciate it you not putting pressure on her. These things have a way of fizzling out once a partner becomes discontent. Find another girl to date before you become obsessed and emotionally unavailable to another.
2006-09-14 02:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not carign approximately ur emotions-as u've reported. it is relatively had being able u won't be able to get out of actually, Iall i will say is that if u be able to pay for or a chum u can share a house with, u could try this for a speedy at the same time as. Or go sleep b y a friends abode so he can get the image that ur attempting to go away..and he gets his senses lower back, if no longer then i don't be responsive to.
2016-11-07 07:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by overbay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say anything just yet, find out for sure what is going on in her relationship and let that come to a natural end, if it is unhappy it will end, if not then you have to accept the fact she loves another. Be there for her, support her etc, but bide your time.
2006-09-14 02:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you are 95% sure that she is unhappy before you make a move. If she is happy and you are forthcoming with your feelings it just sets you up to get hurt and it jeapordizes your friendship.
2006-09-14 02:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by lovelovelyme23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her and find out how she feels, let her know that if she doesnt feel the same it ok and beings friends is better than losin her right!
2006-09-14 02:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by *new new mackiin'* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No harm telling her frankly what you feel. We all must learn to face reality and never be scared of facing such situations
2006-09-14 02:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is forbidden fruit! Unhappy or not be a friend and don't try to come between them.
2006-09-14 02:20:46 · answer #8 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it straightway.first make sure that she is not happy coz if she is then ur friendship is at stake..once you are sure go ahead and express urself with chocolates and flowers-roses...
2006-09-14 02:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by meandmyself 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure she's unhappy. I wouldn't approach her just yet..Take her lead on things.
2006-09-14 02:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋