There're a couple of girls in my office who won't leave me alone. They're always coming onto me. They've both asked me to sleep with me. I get the feeling they're competing with each other. They're both gorgeous however, so I don't want them to hate me. How can I politely tell them I'm not interested?
2006-09-14 02:17:00 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Right then. I'm not gay and I'm not in a relationship. I'm not going to lie to them, I just don't date girls from work.
2006-09-14 02:24:32 · update #1
tell them!! simple
2006-09-14 02:18:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation as you (I didn't want to use the word "predicament" because I'm not at all bothered by it.) There is this smoking hot blonde at work who always flirts with me. She is married and has cheated on her fiancee with me several times. She also expressed her desire to bear my children and let her future husband raise them.
Just tell them that you aren't interested in dating co-workers. Since there are two of them involved, you can tell BOTH the same message, and neither should take it personally... unless they are jealous, psychotic losers, in which case you wouldn't want to have relationships with them anyway.
2006-09-15 02:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by Bedroom Celebrity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U could try appealing to their sympathies....
tell them u just got out of a serious relationship n u just can't put urself out there again yet but that their attentions have helped because they've reassured u that u r still an attractive human being.
2006-09-14 02:20:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through the same mate, I just had to explain that I do not date or sleep with people I work with, incase it all goes wrong in the relationship it could make work awkward.
2006-09-14 02:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell em you dont believe in engaging in interoffice relations as it only causes awkwardness in the long run, keep em sweet by telling em that had you met them under different circumstances - like in a club or whatever that you would definately been interested, but unfortunately you didnt , and you're not going down the road of mixing business with pleasure.
2006-09-14 02:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably not interested either. Flirting is a competition, if you take it to the next level they will both back down.
2006-09-14 02:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like a hard life mate i feel for you! in all seriousness you just have to be honest with them - tell them straight your not interested like that and it will bring it all to an end. otherwise you might end up sending them mixed signals.
2006-09-14 02:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Empress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are playing a game with you between them and having a laugh, don't take it too seriously and tell them what you told us -" you are lovely but I don't date work colleagues"
2006-09-14 02:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Daddybear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that you will only go to bed with them at the same time, you will soon find out if they are bluffing and if they are not - well your in for a good night ;-0
2006-09-14 05:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by john f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you are not a piece of meat to be haggle over. If you're really not interested then it shouldn't be a problem.
2006-09-14 02:23:58 · answer #10 · answered by jacquelinebrns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a complaint !
Well politely tell them I am not available- easy really
2006-09-14 02:21:27 · answer #11 · answered by toietmoi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋