2006-09-14 00:23:58 · 17 answers · asked by 3d.gal.tammy! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on- it will spite him worse than hanging on ever could!
2006-09-14 00:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't do it ,it will only make him resent you more. also,id never try to spite anyone no matter what. i may have at times thought about it but never done it. as long as you don't act out your actions you are okay. plus is he worth it? i have an ex who now treats me like a nobody. once my husband. he says he has no daughter,grandchild or son and no ex wife. very cruel. for spite i could turn him in for driving with no license. but what for? what will i really gain? not one thing.spite is a bad thing its devies and more. your better than that or you would not be asking the question.love loss sometimes,almost all times hurts. give yourself some time. you will be okay. id say move on however, take a timeout to rediscover yourself. go out with friends and mingle. Mr right will find you.best thoughts to you!!!!
2006-09-14 07:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you could do is to move on with your life and let him see that you're over him. Spite is useless and immature as is revenge. Just let him see that you have truly moved on and let go of this past relationship, it's a much healthier way to live emotionally.
2006-09-14 07:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spite or revenge are a waste of energy. Focus your attentions on something constructive and let Karma deal with the rest.
2006-09-14 07:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! the best thing you can do is move on, not for his sake, but for yours, if you do something to him or his things you will end up regreting it, or you will never forget about what you did to him and therefore could never forget about him and move on. even though it would feel good at the time and you might think it is funny i wouldn't do it because inside somewhere you would know it was wrong, feel bad and not be able to change it. just move on and find someone that will treat you the way you want and deserve to be treated, let the next girl deal with your ex, you are better than that...right? good luck to you.
2006-09-14 07:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by puppy love 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always fun to imagine spiting an ex, especially if they were horrible to you. But is it really worth it? When I was in my early 20's, I slashed the tires of an ex who punched me in the eye when he was drunk. It was fun. He left town because he was scared that my friends would lynch him. It was classic. But not recommended.
2006-09-14 07:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by -- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spite is not a healthy action!
2006-09-14 07:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a continuous cycle of revenge to occur then go ahead, if you just want some peace of mind, let it go,if you are a good person he will eventually feel a loss of you,if you are a spiteful person then he is better off without you.
2006-09-14 07:29:10 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best hing to do to spite your ex is ignore him. His ego can't take it. Pretend that he doesn't even exist anymore.
2006-09-14 07:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by Twiggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave it alone because it won't make anything better it really doesn't.You would soon see that doing nothing makes up for it; you should just move on.[if you still want him back just try and show him what he's missing but don't be too aggressive just act like you care but not too much for him and always be busy when he invites you to something but never let him know what you're doing but don't be very busy.
2006-09-14 07:37:02 · answer #10 · answered by horsnetnet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋