Well instead of proposing straight away he kept flirting with me with questions such as ( "When shall we get married ? ") When I asked if he would marry me if i say yes, he said "Who would not want to be with you ? " at one point his flirting offended me and i said " I am interested in you only as a friend " then he called me and out of anger I dint take his call.. Then my anger faded and I sincerely apologised to him through messages but he has not replied nor does he take my calls, Its been nearly a week.. I need him, as a friend atleast.. I now realise that may be I love him.. Help !!!!!
2006-09-13 23:26:24 · 14 answers · asked by BabyFacedAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He very much wants you, but he's afraid to pop the question. Proposing is a very hard thing to do; fear of rejection is a powerful thing. You just shot yourself down: by telling him that you only want him as a friend while he was working up the courage to ask for something more, you practically guaranteed that he will never propose to you.
You probably have no idea just how badly you hurt him.
If you want him, you need to undo the damage. Either you need to pop the question to HIM, or you need to make him absolutely certain that if he asks you, you'll say yes. However, you're sounding like you're confused and don't really know what you want... be sure you figure that out before you embark on anything drastic!
If you want him to understand, show him this thread and tell him that you wrote it about him. That should help you fix the damage. You may have set your relationship back significantly, but not so badly that it can't be fixed if that's what you want.
Good luck!
2006-09-13 23:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..... I wish you the best..... It is a friend I am interested as well. We however have not been in a arguement but We are considering a relationship beyond friends. I must say to you.
Be careful in all you do. do not rush things. Let time take its course. I know how hard life can be as we are all living it. If you would like further assistance or to talk to me or my Best friend Then msg me and i will talk to her and you. so you can have a friend.
I belive that the guy may be offended. I dont know him. I do believe that he should talk to like a man and not hide.
2006-09-13 23:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by stantonshoemaker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was the way that guy was proposin 2 u!!so he finds ur anger irrational.phone him or txt him wateva.n ask him whether he want 2 go out with u.n if he still doesnt reply, get a white tshirt print 'I'm sorry' and stand in front of him lyk that with sme chocolates and a letter.it HAS 2 work.best of luck!
2006-09-13 23:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by fero_queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure he is flirting with you as it happened with one of my friend also the guy started first to become as a friend then he started to propose her as he was really serious but when she got serious and asked him to send his parents to her house.he started to change the subject.He were used to say yes i am preparing for our marriage and stuff like that but delaying only and once she caught him talking the same stuff to another girl...
means she was not the only one he was telling but more than 6 girls.
so my peice of advise is to better forget him and dont keep the friendship also with him .i know its hard but really i am telling you to be away from him.as even incase he accept to be your friend only he will still try to play with your feelings so as per seen experience i am telling you forget about him..and find somebody else good for you. As in this relation ship you will only suffer and he will get what he want and then leave you...........
2006-09-13 23:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by daisy d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everybody falls in love as easily as you, then there's going to be many many failed relationships! Come on down to earth. Love does not come so easily.
Do not mistake physical attraction for love. Watch yourself or you will end up in trouble!
2006-09-14 00:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see no challenge with that. he will nevertheless be flattered which you have an activity in him and, after some dates, you will commence circulate earnings greater self assurance in your self and commence doing the asking your self
2016-10-14 23:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way of getting to meet him one on one and tell him how you feel about the whole thing. I believe you were moving too fast. When you are able to regain contact, please take it slowly.
2006-09-13 23:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats just maybe his style of courting hehe guys just have different styles and feelings so you should be the one who will know if he is true to his feelings. Can you help me with my question please
2006-09-13 23:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He did propose to u. U just didnt get it.
2006-09-13 23:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by WORLD CLASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how i was with my bf at first but still go up to him and show that u love him!!! I dunno how'll u'll manage that because it's ur chocie just make sure its a smart one!!
2006-09-13 23:40:58 · answer #10 · answered by Kelse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋