2 months ago i courted someone and she answered that she is already comfortable as friends that she doesnt want to be more than that. And i didnt feel that in the going days so 2 days ago i ask her why shes not comfortable and she answered i dont know so what i did is i wrote aletter saying if we could be friends with the comfortable thingy. So i ask her and she said ok. Heres now the problem someone is courting her and that guy has a chance on her. It really hurts,bugs and make me jealous when i see them. What should i do?
2006-09-13 23:25:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's already told you her wishes, so respect them. Just be a friend of hers and be sincere with her. You cannot force someone to be your g/f if she has no desire to be one.
As she's just a friend, she is free to choose whom she wants to go out with, right?
If you still feel you want to try your luck with her, then be patient with her. Show your concern for her, respect her wishes and her values, consult her to show you value her opinion, communicate often with her. Then see where you stand. If she's meant to be yours, she will come to you.
In the meantime, you are also free to make other friends. This will enable you to widen your circle of friends and choice of future partner, right?
2006-09-14 00:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you are having friendship with a girl who has some guy. It is natural for you to feel jealous but think pragmatically one girl canot have relation with two boys. It is neither ethical nor advisable medically or socially. In my view without feeling emotional you ask the girl to select either of you. If she goes for the other guy don't feel hurt. World is big there is always someone for you. Wish you good luck.
2006-09-14 06:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look I am a girl and trust me when I tell you this. She is not interested or attracted to you. you are her friend and she probably likes talking and hanging out with you but the problem is that she is not attracted to you that way. Move on. I promise that is why sorry
2006-09-14 06:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just forget about her, i believed many must be chasing after you. dont forget women are like slippers you can change one any time you wish to do so. as a man you are the owner of the remote control unless if you don't know the tricks.
2006-09-14 06:59:02 · answer #4 · answered by zily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that u're jealous girls like to hear what u have to say just be sure that the other guy isn't around!!!
2006-09-14 06:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kelse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be happy that you fell in love.
Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
2006-09-14 06:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi lover!
you loved her she didn't, she want to b a good friend and she was. if know she is interested in someone, what you can do!!
dear, i know how u feel but you have to except the truth.
2006-09-14 06:34:13 · answer #7 · answered by priya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go kill the ************ sonof abitch to death get your girl back tiger.
2006-09-14 06:29:44 · answer #8 · answered by Neo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Accept it! She just doesn't like you.
2006-09-14 07:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by mctorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some other chick and get laid!
2006-09-14 06:39:38 · answer #10 · answered by MusicLover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋