Hey,
well the thing is my bf and i have know each other for almost a year and have dated 3 times before now. Now i'm worried that he wants to leave me for my friend!!! HELP ME!!! How can i get him to still want me and only me!?!?!?
Kelse
2006-09-13 23:11:52 · 21 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you do not just term everyone you have been out with your b/f do you? You have only been out with him three times in a year. You hardly know each other well. How can you consider other as a couple?
Treat him as friend, then you won't have so much agony, over his attention on others.
Go into a committed relationship only when you are sure of each other. That you want to be with each other for the rest of you life! This will only happen if you respect each other; consult with and communicate with each other; accept each other's weaknesses and prepared to give up things that you love for each other.
So, do you still think he's your b/f and you want him as well?
2006-09-13 23:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though there are more problems in your relationship than just keeping his attention on you. If he doesn't want to be with you, then the relationship needs to end because it will never be anything real. If it's meant to be, then it will work out, but you can't force him or put some love spell on him to make him stay with you. As far as your friend... if your friend would take your bf then that's not much of a friend afterall. Cut your losses and find yoruself a real man who will treat you like you deserve!
2006-09-13 23:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't ever beg, become less clingy and if that doesnt work remember that you cant make someone love you and why would you want to you deserve to be loved by someone who is willing to give it freely take what you have learned and move on. some people are not meant to be for the long haul.
2006-09-13 23:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by theone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he really loves you he wont leave you let him go he doesnt really love you if his into your friend and shes not a friend either if she will have a relationship with your boyfriend so for now just pray that you wont get hurt and how did you know that he is into your friend did your friend told you then after all she is a true friend
2006-09-13 23:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur friend is not a true if she would do that to u I know u care alot about him but if he is going to do that **** to u then he was never worth ur time u can find better ppl then him and just keep ur chin high and dont let him no that u r up set over this whole thing then he'll wonder y and he dont know what its like until ur gone that is if he trully cared about u
2006-09-13 23:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your best shot in the relationship. Be one really good girlfriend like give him surprises that you think touches his heart...let him do what he likes to do .well, be the kind of girlfriend you think he'd stay with for long. If he doesn't appreciate, I'm afraid its the end but at at least you're tried your very best. There's always someone out there who will.
2006-09-13 23:25:56 · answer #6 · answered by Laetishaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant. If you have already been apart 3 times before, why keep trying. Isnt it obvious it isnt going to work? Dont assume that you need to "do" something to keep him. If being yourself isnt working, then let him go. Find someone who wants to keep you for the way you are right now.
2006-09-13 23:16:47 · answer #7 · answered by jsmittyditty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say you cant keep someone that wants to leave the best thing to do is talk it over with him see where his mind is .. and if he is not happy in the relationship move on
2006-09-13 23:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u better start flirting with his friend in front of him and get his attention or make him jealous, or else he will leave u very soon!!!
but, think about this : u cant make someone to only want you forever. he may want to leave you for your friend now, and u got him back. but what about the future? can u prevent him to leaving you for other women? so what's the point to get him back??
2006-09-13 23:19:56 · answer #9 · answered by UltimateKitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loved you you wouldn't have to ask this question.
The best thing you can do is to have it out with him and if he doesn't asnwer the questions you best bet is to ditch him and take it on the chin as a lesson learnt.
best of luck
2006-09-13 23:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by tor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋