My boyfriend is such a trip. I just don't know what to do anymore, I get tired of complaining and I know he is tired of hearing it. What should I do? We have been together for over a year but his mood swings are becoming unbearable.
2006-09-13 22:42:47 · 21 answers · asked by Ms.Diva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple answer
Tell him to get help or you are gone!
2006-09-13 22:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U & ur bf should ask this Question to ur self.Do u really love each other??U guys r in love for the last one yr doesnt mean that u r perfect 4 each-other.If things doesnt go right & i think u should move one in life.
4 more info u can mail me,Sure i'll help u
2006-09-14 05:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by miss_rimi1989 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you want the relationship to work. Have a heart to heart talk with him and give a time frame for it to work. Make up your mind after this. Cheers.
2006-09-14 05:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by willibwa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why still hang on to somebody whom you're frustrated to be with? ... do i suppose to think that you love him so much that you still choose to stay with him? if you did love him that much..so why keep on complaining? you stood by him no matter what he is if you think you love him enough to compensate it all....but if it's the other way around..I think it would be better to end the relationship and find someone else who will make you happy...
2006-09-14 05:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulation on your first year. Knowing that I have the power to create the things on board here to resolve these things,I just need your help, each would require rewiring things. a term that can help access additudes about what and where to do things better and enjoy how what we were originally looking for was found and may be trampled on as the quest and time move on,(concieviably I well run out of time) much more than men can understand,any doubts can bring down the house, so things have to be tricky, alot of things about relationships are communication impasses and if you are energy leveled higher than your empasses you are in love, if you are where you have described then see how to get what you want and live with him both?, priorities and time to appropriate are never harder than to be in a additude and locked up emotional time bomb.This usually catchy if one of you get it both of you come down with it.that's a mood swing in its self. If your wants are to stay with him think-on, stalling in being in love is painful to . nobody like a burningbed something like trying to fake being asleep. So get a friend to dump some of the stuff on and listen to you and then don't pay any attention to what the person is telling you to do. See this point also=you can't have it both ways when you think that a friend will listen to your feeling, so at this point you should controll the fact that you are going to influence this person you are talking to.and many a time i've seen all the good intension lost because they forgot they were only going to dump,period!, they weren't going to apply the suggestions from the person they talked (dumping) to, it just get lost sometimes trying to do simple things that should be easy, Just dump some of the stuff that bugs you on to some old friend and laugh off as much of it that can look stupid,then stay close enough to the source of your feeling to see where you had not seen from your other perspective this feeling that you see him differently or that bi polar swings all over the place but life is not dull , only does it become dull when you don't have answers. guys kinda look at complaining like=selective prosecution is to the police force. All my condolences for the grieving in the world. hurts like hell. (^_^)= I remember on ( tv )=Night Court,that Thelma, the bailiff told them her gastly lifes story of her life when she finished her dumping ... rich mole looked at her and said "you don't have anything to live for" Thelma was proud and like a flash she responded Well!, I've never let that stop me. high ground for mood swings=play nurse and aquant him with the methods known to science to easy in and out of drownding in them nobody gets out of them til they kinda float back up and take on a normal appearance, but until they start coming back up , when they go down and your there it time to start the program of awareness of his knowledge that he is having this condition and you or he will have to address it as a factor that you can disarm or that is locking up your relationship,many people are in this same situation and are not in a relationship, some are cna's in hospitals some people are identically in trouble but have varing abilities, also codependent in and out of things that change. always know when you are really on the line or you just want better and it hurt to not have control, many thing can help, "see if you have to play nurse or that he is acting out of wanting you to give more in the second year, congratulation on trying.~(^_*)~
2006-09-14 07:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it going to change? When?
It will when you do something about it.
Live it or leave.
Want to be married to this guy and live like this until death do you part?
I don't think so and neither do you.
Find someone who compliments you and cares about you.
2006-09-14 05:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by alysonhell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break.. tell him you need a week for yourself.. and don't contact him or dont answer his calls/messages/etc.. tell him that you can't deal with his behaviour anymore.. and he needs to fix it.. just as u need to think about what ur doing wrong
trust me, he'll be a changed man in a week!
2006-09-14 05:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve to be treated better no body needs to be mistreated in a relationship.
2006-09-14 05:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then break up with him.Its pointless to continue your relationship.Its just a waste of both of your time.
2006-09-14 06:06:19 · answer #9 · answered by Xiangniaini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry on or quit. You know the indian ways?
2006-09-14 05:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋