I just turned 35...I have not had a boyfriend in over 2 years.....I am smart,really funny,pretty,but plus sized.Why can't men look at more than your skirt size?Also i have tried to lose weight but failed each time.
2006-09-13 21:57:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey Sweety,
I too am a plus sized girl! After i broke up with my ex i thought id never find anyone else who would want me because of my wieght. I tried rsvp nd lavalife dating sites but never had any luck,untill i found a free dating site called plentyoffish.com.With this site i had over 90 mesges in just 1mth.You shouls give it ago nd who knows you could have some fun in the process!!
2006-09-14 00:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by kristy p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1ST of all you gotta love you 1st. after that, stop looking so hard. I look at love like something you cant find like your keys. If you keep looking you can't find it. As soon as you stop looking , BAM! there it is... in the mean time, go out and enjoy life. I'm plus sized too and there are men out there that like women our size. Don't worry yourself too much it will happen, just be patient. And this is coming from someone that has had a a BF in 2 years as well. I have stopped looking. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't it doesn't, I'm still happy with me. It's the other people that are missing out!
2006-09-13 22:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by luciousbbwkitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many men like 'big girls' so I wouldn't worry about your size. I am 40 and since leaving my wife 3 years ago I have not been interested in a relationship, I think the older people get the more wary they get - I certainly am and I am perfectly happy being single.
If you carry on being yourself and relax you will find someone - you need to put yourself out there of course - the more people you meet the higher your chances of meeting someone special.
You sound lovely to me, so just relax and enjoy your freedom - we never appreciate what we have until it's gone!
2006-09-13 23:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Mick H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty is in all shapes and sizes, and if men cant see you as that because your not a anorexic bean pole then that is their problem, hang in there darling you will find a man he will see your beauty, and be proud of who you are, if you do want to loose weight, you do need to be patient it takes a long long time, don't give up it took me 9months to go from a size 16 to a 12 and a lot of hard work, but i loved me at a 16 as much as i do know as a 12, have faith girlfriend.
2006-09-13 22:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by pebblesandkara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im pretty, pint-sized, intelligent, financially-able and has a fantastic character (at least that's what i think).
Yet i've nv had any guys gone head over heels at me.
why, i think they're all blind and i don't believe in love anymore.
and im not even crooked.
sheesh.
But deep down, there may still be a mr right.
he's probably lost or something.
good luck yah!
2006-09-13 23:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by nadia z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling I am in a relationship myself I just want to let you know not to give up hope it does happen don't rush out looking for it because generally it happens when you don't even expect for anything to and I promise it will happen and if a guy pays to much attention to you size then he's not even worth you time to begin with
2006-09-13 22:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by prettynpink0123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont give up...there is someone for everyone sweetness...I know Im married for the second time.. My bro wouldnt care Hes big too and he is getting discriminated too for that reason and cuz he is in between jobs and women want employed men and hes 47. Most men are married by that age but I know three sweet ones who arent.. It is never too late...ck horoscope sction for compatability ok?
Fire sings are good with firesigns
Water signs with water signs etc Dont give up U*date is good
2006-09-13 22:02:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is one for you, but you keep looking in the wrong places/at the wrong men. I think you have already met him just not paying attention enough. Open your eyes.
2006-09-13 22:01:31 · answer #8 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for love and just focus on yourself. If you put all your energy into bettering yourself I bet you will find someone without even looking.
The only failure in life is when you stop trying.
2006-09-13 22:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by Jon H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't let one guy ruin the though of finding the mister right, if one man was horrible doesn't mean they will all be and just for jokes i could be mister right but u will never know until we meet
2006-09-13 22:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by leo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋