I love my boyfriend, and he makes me happy in every way shape and form, but lately everytime I see my neighbor, I can't help but wonder what it would be like to spend some time with him. Am I wrong to do this? My boyfriend knows, and he teases me all the time about it.
2006-09-13 21:40:57 · 9 answers · asked by sweetgurl13069 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
No, it's not wrong it's human. No matter how much you love your boyfriend, you're going to fantasize about other guys from time to time. It's nice that your boyfriend is being a good sport about it. Just relax and enjoy your fantasy and your boyfriend.
2006-09-13 21:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by Lucrecia2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. It's normal and natural to consider being with other people -- you actually need to date lots of people to know what type of person you like ... it's kind of like sampling flavors of ice cream. It's not wrong to just fantasize, but if you're really curious, then why not actually get to know him -- maybe you'd wind up liking him a lot.
2006-09-13 21:43:48 · answer #2 · answered by Yee Haa! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you married your boyfriend, would you still be thinking about the neighbor? Maybe it's time to decide what you'd really like to do.
2006-09-13 22:25:54 · answer #3 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although perhaps lacking in a little self control i would say its normal in moderation. Its a bit weird that you felt it necessary to tell your boyfriend and even weirder that hes ok with it.
2006-09-13 21:44:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is if knocked on your door and your boyfriend wasn't in town, would you step out???? It is ok to look, but not touch.
2006-09-13 21:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
to me..its not right..when u are in serious relationship..u should stop thinking about others..u should concentrate to your partner..however it is normal for man/woman to have fantasized with others..but do control and knows where's your limit..
2006-09-13 21:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by atokboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no harm in fantacising or dreaming or imagining about any thing or any body.
2006-09-13 21:43:18 · answer #7 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantezies are ok, as long as they don't turn into reality....
2006-09-13 21:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Nightswan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r not wrong.
2006-09-13 21:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by J.SWAMY I ఇ జ స్వామి 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋