How can i avoid being labeled as a friend? There's this girl that is really amazing and i do not want her to see me as just a friend. I've met her about 2 weeks ago. What must i do in the beginning?
2006-09-13 21:21:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In the beginning, you must be somewhat flirtatious, but not entirely overbearing. You can not show interest in a "puppy" way, where you are likely to do as she tells you. Then, you become the friend; the listener. And girls will not date the one they talk to and tell everything. Do not kiss her feet or worship her. Just be playful. When girls start talking to you like you are one of their girlfriends, then there was probably no chance in the first place. Many girls can not date someone they can not respect, and you can not respect someone that kisses your butt.
2006-09-13 21:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by lilyanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to start off being friendly with her and then see if she looks at you as more. Just bc you become friends with her doesn't mean she'll never see you as a bf. If it's there, it's there, no matter what. I have two guy friends and one of them I have never and will never see as more and the other I am in love with and want to be with.
2006-09-14 02:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by Yen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships begin with friendship .. needless to say if you are interested in a relationship, talk to her. Tell your feelings and go from there. If she only wants to be friends, you have to respect that.
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2006-09-13 21:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sometimes its better to start as friends then work into a good relationship. read tips on dating and relationships on this site
2006-09-13 21:50:20 · answer #4 · answered by lace1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show your interest to her and mention it to her that you maybe interested in something more than just friendship.But don't pussh it,if you do you may push her away.
2006-09-13 21:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Joma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her what you just said here.
2006-09-13 21:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by want2wild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make a move on her
2006-09-13 21:38:32 · answer #7 · answered by Eva Daniel Rn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U HV TO JUMP STRAIGHT TO HER HEART
2006-09-13 21:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋