The thing is I'm two years younger then my girlfriend and she doesnt know it..... Its been really getting at my conscious...im just worried if i tell her would she break up with me....what should i do?
2006-09-13 21:13:42 · 18 answers · asked by eternal_soldierz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is I'm two years younger then my girlfriend and she doesnt know it..... Its been really getting at my conscious...im just worried if i tell her would she break up with me....what should i do? I'm 21 shes 23...
2006-09-13 21:20:12 · update #1
hi there as long as you are not a minor then youre g/f should be fine .....but its sad that you lied about youre age tell her the truth regardless and start a fresh with no lies with youre g/f and move on from this and no age doesnt matter at the end of the day its only a number .......its the person that you love not the age .....as long as its legal !!!!! you take care xxx
2006-09-13 21:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Age, height, appearance and money are just minor things. Not that important. With TRUE LOVE, those doesn't count much BUT since there is not much of an age gap in your case, why worry?
You should not at all be worried if she breaks up with you for just those things, then at least be thankful you have loved and lost.....I do not think that it would matter to her though. What matters is how caring and loving you are to her.....
2006-09-14 04:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok why would you not tell her in the first place it's dumb of you to be 21 and still playing like your 14! I would say tell her! tell her your age it would be nice for you to do that for yourself! Don't act like you forgot either! The fact is don't lie to the person if their spending time with you like that! That means you would lie to her about anything else about you! Tell her the truth and see what happens. the only 2 things that can happen is 1. she dumps you for lying or 2. she stays with you but she will look at you differently because you lied! but then again she could just dump you because of your age!
2006-09-14 04:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by crystal8345 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years is nothing! Unless you're a minor and your girlfriend is an adult, there should be nothing to worry about. The reason she would break up with you is if you lied to her about your age. Age isn't a big deal, building a relationship based on lies is a big deal.
2006-09-14 04:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said she doesn't know your 2 years younger, but did you ever say you were her age or older? If you lied, you can only first put yourself in her shoes. Once you do that you will be ready for any consiquence she may lay apon you for your lie. If you haven't lied, if she is a decent human she won't care about 2 years between a set of legal adults.
2006-09-14 04:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha You are worrying over nothing!! Age does not matter at all.Chill out and go with the flow!! Have a great day and enjoy your girlfriend.
2006-09-14 04:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter. I mean two years isn't much. If she really cares about you I don't think she would break up with you. But I do think you should tell her let her know you were afraid of how she would react. And if she does break up then she didn't care enough about you and you can do better.
2006-09-14 04:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by lovemybaby0215 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only 2 years. that's not that big of a deal. theres so many other relationships out there with such a bigger age difference and if she really cares for you age shouldn't matter. if she truly likes you she wont break up with you. so tell her already lol
2006-09-14 04:19:29 · answer #8 · answered by jessica18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest and tell her. Honesty is one of the key to a long lasting relationship. Moreover age is no barrier.Love , understanding and compromises that matters most.
2006-09-14 04:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by wan2knowhow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is not the problem if you love this girl then it does not matter if you are 10 years younger
2006-09-14 04:18:56 · answer #10 · answered by space_cowboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋