im really in love with my girlfriend the one that is pregnant for 3 and im only 17 years of age should i tell my ex that its not my baby?
2006-09-13 21:11:01 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im in 11th grade and i play sports and i dont got time for a job should i let my parents take care of it?
2006-09-13 21:12:16 · update #1
i love sex!
2006-09-13 21:27:59 · update #2
You need to be honest with them both. Why, if you love your girlfriend(3months preg.),would you not tell her? The girl who is 5 months preg,does she know you have another girlfriend? Do your parents know about both girls being preg?
If both of those babies are yours,you need to help out as much as you can. Right now,there are phone calls you can make to places like social services and state funded agencies. Talk to you counselors at school,and see what kind of help that they can give you.
Do not have any more kids...Use a condom.
Good luck.
2006-09-13 21:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by stvsgrl2006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you should not tell your ex that it's not your baby. You need to take care of both of these children that you are bringing in to the world. You may only be 17 years old but it's time to grow up real quick. You made the mistake of having unprotected sex with two women, not your parents so NO you should not have your parents take care of the babies. Time to quit sports and get a job because you're going to need one.
2006-09-13 21:14:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lucrecia2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take responsibility for your actions. You are going to have to get a job and put sports on hold to support your children. Tell your parents about both children. They will be dissapointed but I believe they will be supportive. Make sure you also meet the girls parents and let them know that you will do all you can, within your means, to take care of their girls and your kids.
From now on keep your pants zipped up around girls; when you are finally married and able to afford having other children, then you can unzip your pants.
2006-09-13 21:21:08 · answer #3 · answered by Cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Good job! Now you're so deep in sh!t! Your ex will still sue you for child support which isn't cheap. You better start to treat your gf like queen for next 18/19 years even if she walk all over you.
Sport isn't going to do you any good. What will you say when you're in court room? "I can't work because I play sport"? They will throw your a55 in prison if you think like that.
I really don't know what to say... Maybe run to Mexico? Well all I know is you basically really fvcked your life up for next 18/19 year for 15 mins of careless and unresponsible fun with two piece of meats.
2006-09-13 21:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you are screwed. You could try a paternity test on the one chick, but you being 17, I don't think you can afford it. I would recommend getting ready to give about 70% of your future paychecks your yo baby's mammas. Oh yeah, and start using birth control, do the world a favor.
2006-09-13 21:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by NightTrainWooWoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no do not do that.. just first take a dna and find out if the gurl ur not with is really having ur baby then just be stright out with ur gurl it will be the best for the both of u cause i have a baby and damn i went through the same **** now im a single mother to a 2 yr old little gurl
2006-09-13 21:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by trisha s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really screwed up..
i think the ex is going to know who got her pregnant!
quit sports and get a job. you have two children to start supporting soon. diapers aren't cheap! and dont be mean enough to lay all of this on your parents doorstep. they werent the ones who told you to go around knocking girls up. dont make them pay 100% for your mistakes.
2006-09-13 21:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by .jess 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Become a Morman, then you can knock up a few more, no problem! Otherwise Dude you had better tie a knot in that thing, ever hear of birth control?
2006-09-13 21:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying,"If you are going to dance, you have to pay the fiddler." Looks like you need to find a job or join the military.
2006-09-13 21:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by Max 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude... what's going on with your life?? A few moments of enjoyment resulted to a whole life suffering??
Try to make up your mind even before you shoot out the sperm in any hole...
I think you should marry both of them... to take up the responsibility of the shi t you have created..
2006-09-13 21:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋