I was seeing this guy and he always came over to my house to see me. When it all started he asked me if he could take me out sometime I said yes. He then started coming over all the time and hanging out. There were a couple of times that we had made plans to go out and do things but when the time came or the day came something managed to come up to where he didnt want to do it anymore or he was sooo late that we couldnt do it, but he just wanted to sit here. I am confused he said that he wasnt ashamed of me or wanting to be with me but yet he never told anyone about me or wanted to go out and do things with me. So am I wrong to think that he is ashamed of being in public with me? Am I wrong to think that all he wanted from me was sex?
2006-09-13 20:55:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think if you feel the way you do and if you have talked to him about it but he hasn't changed then he really doesn't care about you or your feelings. I have had relationships like that and they made me feel embarrassed, humiliated and ashamed of myself. It wasn't good for me. He may already have a girlfriend or be married. Do you ever go to his house? Does he let you call him on anything except a cell phone? Either way, no matter how lonely you may be or no matter how much you like this guy he is not worth losing your self respect over.
2006-09-13 21:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey are you sure u werent going out with me? DAMN i did that all the time with my ex, The reason was that i kind of was ashamed to take her out i dont know why.......... But the main reason i sat her up was so i can keep her happy hey it lasted 3 years and i got some all i want but if you dont want your feelings hurt trust me forget about him beacause he only wants one thing!
2006-09-13 21:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he does not want to be seen with you & that's a very bad sign. I think that when a guy is in love he makes sure that people know. But if you are young he might be caring but self-conscious. Take care.
2006-09-13 20:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Lasha♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds more like he is married or has another woman and or family and dont want you and him to get caught up. as for him being ashamed of you, no, it was all on him, dont let anything put you in that state of mind.
2006-09-13 21:03:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. sounds like that's all he wanted. some guys will try and get the most while giving the least. just learn from it and don't have sex with someone until you're sure they willing to give before they get. i'm guessing that he didn't care if you got off during sex?
2006-09-13 20:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by jules 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So your good enough to f*ck but not to go out with. What does this tell you? I bet your "friend" is in a relationship already. He's using you BIGTIME.
2006-09-13 21:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he is not ready to be seen in public with you or he is using you for sex. What ever it is, it is his problem not your, so you should do what make you happy, stay with him or dump him, you do what best for you.
2006-09-13 21:00:16 · answer #7 · answered by William L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a real jerk. Dump him and the sooner the better.
2006-09-14 08:08:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I definetly agree with you and your very apropriate sensible observation . Please do watch out and be very careful about your any move with this person . Good luck & take care .
2006-09-13 21:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very married.
2006-09-13 20:59:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋