i went out with a woman a few times and seen right off it wasnt going to work. i have tried to be nice and tell her every way i know how but she is not taking the hint at all. what do i do other than saying leave me the hell alone???
2006-09-13 20:23:39 · 26 answers · asked by space_cowboy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look her in the eye and tell her your don't feel any chemistry and to please stop calling and coming over.If she persits like calling you 12 times in a row tell her you'll get a straining order.You can ask the police how many unwanted calls you need to make a report. Be very clear and leave out any profanity.Be calm.
2006-09-13 20:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you must be direct with her. I find that men in northamerica arent direct enough and play games. If u just ignore her calls that will hurt and confuse her especially if she likes you alot. You must just tell her that u think she is a really nice girl but u just dont think u guys are right for one another but it was very nice meeting her and u wish her all the best.and say your sorry even though u dont have to be it just sounds nicer that way. Shell be hurt for a day or two and then get over it she might even thank you for being honest with her. Dont worry its not that hard to do . I am a female and i think being nice and direct is the right thing playing gamed is just being as asshole and it causes much anguish to women whena guy doesnt call because we wonder . So be like the europeans dont be a north american chicken **** let her know the chemistry isnt ther for you and move on and find yourself the right girl. Good Luck YOu can do it!!
2006-09-14 03:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by europe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by "being nice", but some people seem to need a brick upside the head. Not literally, but some people need the print real big and exact directions, you know? She sounds like someone you will have to be pretty honest, if not blunt with.
"Look...I am gay" is always fun, but I think it is easier to just tell her straight up. I'd rather get my feelings hurt and get over it than embarrass myself by chasing after a guy and investing time in someone who doesn't feel the same way. So...lay it on the line for her in words she cannot misunderstand.
Good luck. Tough position. You sound like a nice guy.
2006-09-14 03:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call. Don't see her at all. Don't show mix messages. Don't go out with her. Generally, women get the message easily, you know, as long as you do not show interest....do not flirt at all, too. Do not try to be nice- try to be straight and if worse comes to worse, tell her gently BUT FIRMLY that you are interested only as a friend nothing more okay?
2006-09-14 03:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by yunesa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry calm down, if she is not understanding then give her a black rose and tell her straight away that we can't move on, but remember be a gentlemen in doing so, this is what she will consider and remember, okay so good luck buddy. but take this I am not a girl, I am a boy and I just helped u looking at u r problem.
2006-09-14 03:28:37 · answer #5 · answered by rohit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the truth in a nice way... maybe have a dinner with her and when walking her to her place tell her that will be the last time you'll see her coz it really won't work. just tell it in a nice way.
2006-09-14 03:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get a new girlfriend and if you cant find a good strong one then find a picture on the Internet and get a print and pretend that you have one, if that doesn't work then ignore her completely when she tries to talk to you don't respond and if she keeps calling block the number if she is coming to your house, get a restraining order.
2006-09-14 03:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Kathykitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer the phone when she calls, walk away when shes talking, subtle hints don't always work
2006-09-14 03:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell her straight.some people just don't take the hint.be nice but firm about it.Just tell her it will never work,and you enjoyed the times you had together.
2006-09-14 03:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth - that you just don't think it's going to work. Or that you are interested in someone else.
2006-09-14 03:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋