I have strong feelings for one of my best friends. She is everything I've been looking for in a young woman and I get giddy and have butterflies when she's around. She knows how I feel, but wants to expand our relationship (she's never dated so I'd be the first for her). We are always together, and some of my other friends see us and think we're going out. What do I do, people of the world? Let it be?
2006-09-13 20:19:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry but you may be barking up the wrong tree. People are strange win it comes to sex. If you haven't made a move by now she probably does not want you to. She wants you as a friend. If she wanted you as more, she would have made a move by now. If you do make a move now, make it boldly, she won't respect it otherwise. Tell her you want to go on a real date that you need to know that she is willing to do so. I can't tell that the gamble will work. It probably will not. But true love comes at great risk to personal happiness. You have to be ready to put her happiness above your own and that may hurt if her happiness is elsewhere. Good Luck.
2006-09-13 20:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is something you need to talk to her about tell her exactly how you feel and see if she feels the same way and if she does ask her out...i truely believe true love is a best friend since this will be her first relationship just remember to treat her good...But you really need to do something about it before its too late :(
2006-09-13 20:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sixteen or older? What is the problem here? She wants to "expand" the relationship. So let her spread it out and see how it lays. No sex, however. No one here is going to tell you what to do, that's what love is all about. Risky.
2006-09-13 20:26:27 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, a true love is a best friend indeed, just live the world and concentrate on u r relationship, and nurture and nourish it with what all it needs, time, faith dialog etc.
2006-09-13 20:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by rohit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what weve been in the same situation my bf now is my bestfriend. His been my bestfriend eversince and he knows bout my secrets..I have a bf before and suddenly he told me what he really felt for me..I was shock coz i never expceted that he loves me more than a friend..He told me that his hurting every time he saw me and my be before..at first I told him not to love me coz I love him as my bestfriend only but then whwn my bf that time told me that he saw my bestfriend hugging with that girl..Im really jealous in that way I realized that I love my bestfriend more..and now his not only a betfriend but my bf too..Im really glad that I meet him...
2006-09-13 20:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. There's a great quote I picked up a while ago;
"Happiness is being married to your best friend"
Go for it!
2006-09-13 20:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it grow! "Best friends, true lovers!" My wife was my best friend before courtship and marriage, and still is my best friend.
2006-09-13 20:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by Bummerang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sweetest thing by far.
Go for her dude.
May you all have eternal happiness.
2006-09-14 00:02:06 · answer #8 · answered by nadia z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u love her more den a friend?
does she love u more den a friend?
r u ready to be more den a friend?
is she ready 2 be more den a friend?
if yes, GO FOR IT!!
:)
2006-09-13 20:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by rufiogerl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, why don't you try... i guess it will work out for you coz you know each other well. isn't it sweet to be with your best friend?
2006-09-13 20:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋