My bf still talks about his ex gf (a love 13 yrs ago) - i am confused - whether he loves me or not? my bf - got dream about his old gf - he cries - when he see anyone resembling her - he just goes and talks to her - and he narrates me all this - i feel that he does not love me?????? what should i do... my love for him is true...
2006-09-13 20:03:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sit him down and talk to him about the way you feel. Tell him that you shouldn't have to compete with an ex for love, and that if he can't show you the same love you show him that you can't stay in a dead end relationship.
2006-09-13 20:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by teeniey37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to understand his feelings and shower him full of love. What really happened is that his love towards his ex girl friend is great and unfortunately ( for him) it has ended. His love towards you is also genuine and only thing is the amount of love he has towards his ex gf is still hurting. But one thing his love towards her has halted and with you it is growing so after a period of time your love will become more enough to drown the love he had with his old gf. Be patient and compassionate and everything would be fine.
2006-09-13 20:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is not over his ex-girlfriend it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love you. It is possible for a person to have more then one love. You do need to talk to him and find out where you fit in to his life and how he feels about you. Good luck!
2006-09-13 20:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Lucrecia2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you it's him, and you have to set the record straight. Either he starts living for the future or he can live for the past, which is non-exsistant anymore. He is the one that has to choose between a ghost/dream of the past or a future with you.
Putting it bluntly you have to lay it on the line.
2006-09-13 20:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by LVieau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like i said to you before he still loves her...if you cant deal with this you need to get out of the relationship and move on to something else.
2006-09-13 20:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him tell him his emotional bursts for his ex- are to much for you, talk it out with him and you'll get your answers.
2006-09-13 20:10:10 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There just soul to be sold.
2006-09-13 20:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow to me you are living in her shadow and is that where you really want be in his life
2006-09-13 20:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by lost one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋