1) Girls sympathise me a lot (they think I am handsome).
2) I'm a nerd. I prefer reading in a library over going out for some parties --- also, I am very successful in school and interested in science.
3) I am 15 years old and I have never had a girlfriend. (Not because I couldn't find one, but because I intend to be only with someone I truly love, which still hasn't happened.
4) I feel more comfortable while with adults then while with the boys of my age.
5) I have a couple of good friends.
When I grow up, I want to start a family, marry the women I love and have kids. Are my chances reduced??
2006-09-13 19:50:13 · 7 answers · asked by ciomlol 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
No, where were you when I needed you? You sound like Bill Gates. He didn't have any difficulties!
2006-09-13 20:02:54 · answer #1 · answered by Genie♥Angel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um ... NO.
Honey, because you are the way you are, you will be more likely to find the girl that is REALLY meant for you. Your preference for reading is a way of withdrawl, which is not always a bad thing, but your maturity level seems to be higher than most boys your age.
The reason you may feel uncomfortable with boys your age is because you cannot relate to them. You can't relate to the sports, the cockyness, the stupid things that some of them do. And this is not a bad thing.
However, you're only fifteen. You may not find the woman you are meant to marry until college, which is where I think your best bet lies. Some girls in high school are fake, flaky, and phony. They don't start realizing that there is life after high school until after they graduate.
2006-09-14 03:02:01 · answer #2 · answered by Bachman-ette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound perfectly normal. You have friends of your own age, you have values and you also enjoy the company of adults. None of these are bad things.
Stay true to yourself and don't try to pretend to be anything you are not, Honesty is an enormously attractive characteristic. You don't need to rush anything at 15, although I know it can be frustrating at that age. "Nerds" often blossom in college, so try to be a little patient. ( I went to a highly competitive college where everyone had pretty much been a nerd in high school and it was amazing! You weren't different and you could relax.)
Just my opinions, but I think you;re going to be a pretty fine man.
2006-09-14 03:03:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its good that the girls complement you, they're just trying to flirt with you. so you see it really doesnt matter being a nerd or not, girls still like you, preferring to be intelectual over mindless drunkin stuper doesnt make you a nerd, and aparently you are just more mature then your fellow peers, which can be a good thing, it means you can be a step ahead an wont fall into bad peer presure situations which may harm your future. sounds to me like your just on the right tract, i mean if you just settle for any ol girl it will just cause problems, when you become sucessful handsome grown man you will have plenty of women to choose from dont worry, an these kids that are busy going to parties an slacking off will just have to work for you, thats just how it goes
2006-09-14 03:04:47 · answer #4 · answered by peeps you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your chanses are terrific and if you meet a girl that you fall in love with or have crush on (same) go for it. To know what 'Truly love' is arent something to ponder too much since its a eternal question all humans have pondered.
But if you see here everyware all of a sudden and have her spooking at night thats how i 'knew'.
Id say your chanses is w a girl that dont are a party girl is great and fair with a party girl.
The'nerdfactor' will fade.
Good luck Young Man!
2006-09-14 02:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by idiotjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just be you and what ever will be will be. Just don't plan your life to be a fairy tale. Live a little in the process. Make the wise choices and if you aren't sure ask someone. You may be mature, but you haven't seen it all.
2006-09-14 05:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you are ONLY 15 - you are okay. You sound less messed up than most 15-year-olds I know!
Hang in there - don't let people pressure you.
Best of luck!!!
2006-09-14 02:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by tigglys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋