My boyfriend had an old school friend ( a girl ) leave him a message on his myspace account. I know I shouldn't be upset and I know he would never do anything stupid, I trust him completly. But it's still making me uncomfortable. Should I just let it go?
2006-09-13 19:16:02 · 24 answers · asked by halainn317 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You feel insecured by another girl, and at the same time you're low on confidence. Have confidence in yourself and your bf, if the thing bothers you a lot, ask him in face. If the boy loves you enough...he won't mind it.
But don't ever be too possessive...by doing that...you may have the bf...but you'll lose his love.
2006-09-13 19:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by sameer s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. The myspace thing drives me crazy too. I was really worried about it at first because I saw it as a place where people "hook up." Now I see that it's a way to connect. Create your own page and ask that you are added to his friends list. Hopefully he'll also make it clear that he's "in a relationship" and you'll be less nervous.
2006-09-14 02:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by ja3po 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, please don't push anything about it. He will start to get defensive and then a big mess will occur. One of the biggest turn ons to a guy when you are put to a test like this is to be COOL. He will respect you for trusting him. Besides, if something goes down that isn't suppose to between him and another chick, it will come out in the long run.
2006-09-14 02:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, let it go. MySpace is designed for people to find you. Now if he goes to meet with her, you should feel uncomfortable.
2006-09-14 02:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by Zero Cool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if yr thinking about this then yr not trusting him completely. its hard to find anyone that can trust fully in a relationship these days. its only on myspace. forget it about it. read tips on dating and relationships on this site
2006-09-14 02:26:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she's just saying hi and being friendly than let it go. Not all friends or going to be guy friends, or maybe you should befriend her. But if she seems threating talk to your boyfriend about it.
2006-09-14 02:20:03 · answer #6 · answered by pheli07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore it/her. You can't have him all for your self. He will have a life besides the time you spend together. And about 50% of the people involved in that life will be female.
Safe your hurt feelings for important issues.
2006-09-14 02:19:47 · answer #7 · answered by ak2005ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! You have every right to feel this way and the best thing to do is be honest and let him know how you fell, because if you don't it will get worse.
2006-09-14 02:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Dr. Phill klueyain Jr. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have anything to worry about. Everyone is on the net now, and it was probably easier for her to drop a line and say hi, rather than call him. Everyone does it.
2006-09-14 02:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a history of doing stupid stuff then you do if not you should probably let it go.
2006-09-14 02:21:25 · answer #10 · answered by Lone Silver Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋