my lover n I both live in different countries .. who should visit who 1st ???
if a girl plays a joke with da guy, it bothers him a lot n his inbox gets full n he duzn get da girlz emails, he thinks that he lost her when the truth is he didn't and when his inbox gets emptier and the girl tells him that she's still his, why doesn't he believe her until a friend of hers tells him???
how can a girl make her boyfriend make him feel secured, if she lives in another country ???
why do guys always compliment girls "she is hot" or "a beautiful lady" etc. ???
2006-09-13 19:08:02 · 10 answers · asked by haseen_gudiya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is not a matter of ego as to who visits whom 1st....it rather depends on logistics and mutual convenience.....have a discussion with your partner and find a solution and time appropriate to your circumstances.
2006-09-13 19:11:45 · answer #1 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance only works if the two people are mature enough to handle it .. it takes times, devotion, honesty, communication and trust. If you don't have that, it will not work. As to who needs to visit first .. that isn't a debate that should be based on when the time is right, the expense, and as well who has the time to do that.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brilliant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-14 02:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long dist relationships will work out only if both the people are really really serious about it, and mature enough to handle it. Practically speaking, its very hard to understand the mentality of a guy whom u meet everyday. then, how can you estimate the mentality of someone who is living continents away from u???? Practically speaking, long distant relationships will not last longer, unless you both have lived together for some time and have understood eachother mentalities thoroughly!!
2006-09-14 02:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by retro_avocado 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hai Haseen,
Well my answers may help you sort your confused mind
Mans Nature of Luv : Mans nature is like a jack fruit which is hard outside but soft and sweet as the fruit which taste from inside.
A mans psychological point is he always as a problem he refers to him as " me " and " my " may be the fact that from ages in the past a man compared to women is the dominating duck.
Men are dominating but ultimately as a relationship progress he surrenders to his love and sweetheart and most of the time listens to her for advice or for solace and finally the she conquers the " me and my " but always as the later statement to which i refered he is a jackfruit and he dosent accept or show her
that the she has conquered his heart which throbs for "she"
01) Since U and Ur lover stay in 2 different countries and if you are in love for say 4-5 years then U both must meet each other
as 5 years of courting via phone,mails and letters will go waste
If you both guys stay in countries say nearby then the probablity of meeting each other is positive.
And as far as who should visit who first is concerned ? U have to note one thing my dear that in love there is no place for I or me,
it is only " WE " (refers to U and Ur lover)
Forget your point of who should visit who 1st and if you both guys are long time lovers then go for it meet Ur Sweetheart....
On the contrary if Ur love is for shorter periods such as a month or a year then give a months time and during that time think for sure that
a) R U really very much in love with each other and if yes then U can meeeeeeeeeeeeeettttttttttttttttttttt leaving your egoistic thought of who should Visit who 1st ....
The mail factor : Men are really insecure in relationships, they always feel that they must be acknowledged or constantly kept in touch to secure them. Thats why once the mail box is empty he goes into a shell harder then a tortise and is lost why his girl has -nt replied to a mail which he spent hours together putting his thoughts on the computer keyboard.
His stay in the shell though for some hours feel like years of stay and once there is a reply from his girl the shell in which he resided vanishes like a MIG 21 flying high in the sky, he is excited, that what romantic things his girl would have written
and once he has gone through her reply and is in a happy frame of mind he surely feels that why did i go into the stupid shell when
my girl loves me so much.... And haseen never play a joke or a prank on ur guy as men also have a soft heart and a bad temper.
Secure : To make the man feel secured following points should help
01) Give attention to his comments or statements though they are valid or stupid.
02) Act to what he says if the statement is true to your conscious
and if you feel is valid to do so...
03) I you have a fight, never have a egoistic frame in mind break the ice and he will succumb to you.
04) If you want him to act as per your valid wish then say it to him i in a soft way , he may ignore first but u always remember
that when he is in a relationship the other part of him is you and
will for sure act as per your valid wish in a few days.
Go out spread the word of love in his retina, brain and soul and make him feel special , you shall always be complimented for
the pains you have taken to make him feel secured.
Guys compliment girls : Since women the fairer/wheatish/dark/dusky beautifull and elelegant of the either sex is so enchanting that the man though irrespective of his status whether he is married or not is forced by his brain to compliment the " S H E " for her looks and of course the attitude of hers..
Hey hassen dont you think that the answer satisfy you and if yes then well i shall feel satisfied that after keying in these reply for lalast half an hour i have given U good logical answers.
2006-09-14 02:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by raja e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well according to me they are possessive and in possessive they do stupid acts that hurt the girls and and more over they can do anything to get u back can even tell lie that u should never leave him and are even afraid that what will happen when u get the truth but even at that moment lot of excuses are ready at that moment
2006-09-14 03:19:32 · answer #5 · answered by liza d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all i sujjest you both to do a very good thing
tell each other passwords of each other id's then check each other ID
you should be careful about net love
i m a guy but i trully sujjest you to please him to come 1st to your place
only to be safe
best of luck for your love
2006-09-14 03:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by ravi s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
out of Sight Out of MIND,this is the LAW OF NATURE DEAR, with rare exceptions (Very RARE)
2006-09-14 04:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by sultan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give and Take
2006-09-14 03:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by lovingneighbour 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is a saying:love conquers all, but time and distance conquers love
2006-09-14 02:18:32 · answer #9 · answered by alamoblue2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
long distance .. doesn;t last
2006-09-14 02:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋