Would you keep a guy around out of a feeling of obligation soley on the fact that he buys you expensive presents all the time and won't let you pay for anything. Basically what I'm asking, is that would you choose a guy you don't like as much based on money rather than one who's better for you that cannot afford those types of things. I'm in a predicament like that (being I'm the poor guy!). I can barely afford to take care of myself, let alone buy expensive presents for a girl. What do you think is more important?
2006-09-13 19:07:48 · 16 answers · asked by sTRIKER 81 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To be completey honest, I would rather be with a guy that didn't have as much money but was nice to me and respected me then a guy with a lot of money who wasn't that great. The only women who choose money over sincerity are, i'm sad to say, gold diggers or are basically just insecure. It is a pathetic or lazy women who bases her relationships off of how much or how many thing her boyfriend can buy her. Relationships based off of superficial things never last. Don't worry about not having that much money. Your day will come. Besides, do you really want somebody that would pass you up for material things? I hope not...i don't know you but trust that you can do better than her.
2006-09-13 19:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by ALeoStar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a filthy rich guy for a while. Bought me anything I wanted. Spoiled me rotten. But it got old after awhile. I really should have asked for a car before I dumped him. Probably would have got one too. My friends thought I was crazy for dumping him. But it just wasn't fun anymore. I want a guy that buys me stuff becase he wants to. Not because I just have to say I want that and it magically appears at my house.
I got a great guy now that has hardly any money. But he does buy me little things once in a while. They mean so much more. The other day he bought me some tic tacs. Doesn't sound very nice does it? They came in a pink package and he knows my favorite color is pink. I thought it was nice he remembered I like pink. I doubt if the rich guy even knew what color I liked. The money is nice to have but sometimes the little gifts are better. If she really loves you she won't care if you don't have money.
2006-09-13 19:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by danadeville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having children can both make or destroy the courting. if there's no love before, the guy might want to be there for the emotional/monetary help yet once he feels that he's not required or he exhibits something better, he's lengthy previous. toddlers are the worst difficulty to save a guy glued to you. he will consistently be loose to sdo as he pleases and also you'd be stuck at abode with a baby you dont favor. human beings might want to be prepared to artwork extra sturdy, yet that doesnt recommend that it would want to ever very last and that child will finally end up being born right into a damaged abode. the whole difficulty that the mothers and fathers can do is say that they tried. i might want to under no circumstances have a baby out of wedlock. i prefer to entice close that my husband needs this baby more effective than i do. till that, im on the pill.
2016-11-26 22:34:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't. I in my life have had a few opportunities to be with some pretty well off guys and absolutely chose the more down to earth guys who were just average hard workers who could please me without having to use material things. Unfortunately, a large amount of women think they are "gods gift" to men and expect things to be handed to them on a golden platter. But there are a few out there that look for more than just cash.
2006-09-13 19:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I aint sayin she a gold digger!!!! If a girl is only after a wallet, then she is no good for you. Love and friendship is something that money can never buy! Are you really attracted to this person who is only interested in money? Perhaps you should look for someone a little deeper....someone you will love you for you. She is out there.
2006-09-13 19:11:29 · answer #5 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not materialistic so i prefer a guy who is rich in love for me. gifts from the heart makes me melt.
knowing that he did something sweet for me rather than buy something expensive is so sexy. i know that he can take care of me no matter what, rather than let expensive presents do the talking.
i wud definately go for guys who are thoughful rather than romantic. and you don't have to pay for me all the time. society has changed.
2006-09-13 19:14:11 · answer #6 · answered by NOTurBFF!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very flattering to buy gifts and dinner and things for girls but for some of the nicer ones its not required. Love doesnt cost a thing. However dont have her pay for everything either, i think it should be an equal thing when it comes for money.
2006-09-13 19:14:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u change ur perception, u can even have the girl buy u expensive stuff. being poor does not mean u cant have a gf. those that want u for ur money are usually not worth ur time. there are people i know who has their gf pay for everything they have from lodging to clothes and even everyday necessities like food
2006-09-13 19:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its up to the person really. Would you want someone who just dated you for your money? I don't think so, so maybe its good you can't afford to buy her expensive things. At least you know she is dating you for you.
2006-09-13 19:10:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
money doesnt matter its what is in your heart and how you treat the woman because you cant buy love more less she will end up using you and hurting you in the end if you are rich
but if you're poor then you can find someone who will accept you for who you are and treat you right better
2006-09-13 19:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by sexy_lil_woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋