Why do girls always say their feelings to guys? How come guys don't? MOSTLY?

Answer 1

My experience says that when the girls tell me their feelings...I listen and try to understand.
On the contrary, when I express my feelings (though I've ceased to do so lately) the girls are argumentative, they question the feelings, there is nothing worse than explaining (!!!) one's feelings.

Answer 2

In my experience girls say their feelings, sure, but they change. Women seem to accept this as 'The way it is'. Guys dont say their feelings because they know its going to change. And for a guy, this flexible changing stuff, well that does not make for a good strong reliable relationship. For most guys, if they say something about feelings, you can take it to the bank it wont change lightly or quickly without a great deal of thought and/ or pain. I believe this is one area where Men and Women are completely different and its a breath of fresh air to me that in this at least, a Woman can be a woman and a Man can be a man. Wonderful!

Answer 3

A lot of guys are taught by their fathers and male friends that men shouldn't express their feelings because they make you weak or girly. It's actually harder being a guy than most girls think because a lot of guy want to express how they feel, but cannot because society frowns on that. Just have patiences with us guys - we'll be more expressive if we trust you enough.

Answer 4

Guys aren't generally as emotional-- we are emotional, just not to the same degree.

Guys express how they feel through actions, suggestions and other indirect means. There is a quick mental jump from "how I feel" to "what I am going to do about it".

In the end, what good is talk? Any guy can tell you what you want to hear, so what's the value in that? Talk is cheap.

Answer 5

i feel i care all to much and want to much and i cant find a lady that wants to commit to me make me a part of my life i dont know what im doing wrong..i get told one day you will meet mrs right but every time i fall for someone tell them how i feel im told im to emotional and eager but if i can fall in love give my heart and all and be left so many times,ive found telling someone how you feel doesnt always make the situation better sometimes it does make you look week though...and if you wait till you can trust her to tell how you feel doesnt always work sometimes people dont need to know your weeknesses...to trust and to be open is good but leaves you open to get hurt to..and i wont change being open for anyone just gotta be aware that not all feelings sound good out aloud also depends on what the other wants to or not hear to..but if its love partners can see and feel without words..people can see in me how emotional i can be from being alone from 20 to 30 and never wishing to be,oh how you can ache and feel and be turned away often but when have my feelings ever mattered to the ones i cared about or wished to start a life with...

Answer 6

Because despite what girls say, the second a guy reveals his feelings, she starts losing interest. This is because, the excitement, the wondering how he feels vansihes and she gets comfortable. Thats been my experience. I mean, guys are better at showing feelings through actions rather than words. Pay attention to how we treat you, more than what we say.

Answer 7

Guys actually share their feelings all the time. They just tend to be very simple and logical. In fact, it's this stereo type that tends to make them want to hold in their thoughts. Guys read things like, "Why don't guys share their feelings," and they think, "Hmm. I wonder if I'm supposed to hold my feelings inside, seems like everyone else is..." Don't enforce the stereo type. Just start seeing the feelings in the words they DO say and don't wonder about what they DON'T say.

Answer 8

There are a lot of reasons! Females have always done this. Males don't that often!

Often females are in a rush, guys are not, most guys want to make sure! Females often go by whim, want etc. Men don't always!

Males often know what they want, and it may not be what you want and there by you class them as inmature! Males are more often control more by the brain. When women are more often controled by their hearts!

Answer 9

Well that is life, guys grow up not being told to tell and getting told. That is life and that is the way it is. If a guy really likes you, he will tell you in other ways. Most likely not words though.

Answer 10

because it is something that you would not normally hear from a guy,it hurts there ego. But if a man uses it just right it could be a turn on for a woman.