Mine has upped and left after the abortion and i just wonder if he feels the slightest bit bad.
2006-09-13 18:50:50 · 18 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's interesting that some of these people just assumed that you didn't use protection although you never said that. I'm not going to assume you were irresponsible because condoms fail surprisingly often.
In any case, it does depend on the guy, but I think the unfortunate truth is that most guys who do this sort of thing don't care or feel guilty over the girls that they hurt. I had buddies who did the sort of thing that your guy did, and they really didn't feel bad. Suprising that some people have no conscience, huh?
2006-09-13 20:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is answering that question for you by not being around ,and letting you have abortion .He doesn't want you or the baby .Just the fun of making one.Some men can be sorry in the heat of passion at that moment they are not thinking that they are making plans for what the future will hold for them a unwanted family ,it's later and to late they see what they have done .From now have safe sex,
2006-09-14 02:05:59 · answer #2 · answered by SkyLyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels your a baby killer, and maybe he no longer respects you. I know if I were him i'd fell that way. Its not at all difficult to use protection, and having an abortion just because you dont want the baby is NO EXCUSE-you should feel ashamed.
Theres a difference with people who have abortions because they need to have it. For example a medicle reason.
2006-09-14 01:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by chicata25 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The silly thing is you had sex without protection? Why would you do that? If he can't be relied upon to put a condom on his you know what, why would you think he'd be feel bad about knocking you up.
2006-09-14 01:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really no your whole story but it depends on how close you were with him did he love you?cause if he did he may hurt also but he does not want to show it or don't want to be bothered right now.Or did u chase him away and y'all wasn't really together pulse it wasn't plain so soon as you got it his *** left but good luck honey don't cry let it go it may have been for the good.
2006-09-14 02:01:31 · answer #5 · answered by ebony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He would of stayed by your side for atleast a little while. So I would say no, he does not really care at all and does not feel sorry or guilty. Sorry but you let him put it in, so what do you expect.
2006-09-14 01:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That doesn't necessarily mean that he does not feel badly, he may simply be overwhelmed by the whole thing. It depends on the guy, his feelings toward you, and his obligations.
2006-09-14 02:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm pro abortion when it comes to other people. But if it were my child, no way. I would man-up and ask you to marry me and spend my life protecting you both.
2006-09-14 02:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my man left me when i was three months pregnant for a woman that has four kids and is almost three years older than he is. then his mom took my baby away when she was 2 1/2 weeks old. now he is dating both the girl he dumped me for and my half sister which they both know about each other dating him and act like best friends, and he gets to raise MY baby. and I havent even seen my daughter since she was taken from me. so who knows.
2006-09-14 01:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_lil_woman 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on my friend. Get counseling or help. But never put yourself in that position again. Do not allow that person in your life. Take time to heal and move on.
2006-09-14 01:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by Charles Athole M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋