She's 3 years younger than me (I'm in Canada, the law is different from America) and I'm just getting to know her since we go to the same school. I'm in my senior year so I'll be graduating this year.
I'm thinking I'll wait three years than see if I still feel the same way and maybe tell her. I just don't feel right about it at all with the age difference right now. I just like being around her.
2006-09-13 18:41:22 · 12 answers · asked by pacific_crush 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be her friend by all means but don't take it any further. She's young and in a few years she may be a totally different person, as you will be too.
2006-09-13 18:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I can understand you wanting to stay friends, it's probably not the best choice. Don't set yourself up to be tempted into a Very Bad Decision, and don't put your life on hold waiting.
Go, live, be happy. Give her the space and time to do the same (and to mature and get to know herself better for that matter). Promise to reconnect in three years. If it's "meant to be", it'll be meant to be then too, and it will have a much better chance for working out in the long-term for having done the right thing now.
2006-09-13 18:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by profJohn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok let me tell you my gf is 3 years younger then me....now we met when she was 17 and i just turned 20....but i knew from the moment i saw her that i wanted to be with her....and now im 25 and shes 22 and we are engaged....we will be getting married after she is done with school next year.....so my point is...age shouldnt matter if u like this girl.....well unless she was 12 then that might be different....Just do what you think is right and you can never be wrong....hope that helps
2006-09-13 18:45:37 · answer #3 · answered by pcpirate30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. If you do decide to act on your crush, make sure you're slow with her and don't try to act how you would with an 18 year old girl... I mean, she's pretty young and you don't want to scare her or something, haha.
But if there's a law in Canada about it, don't go for it. I've seen people go to jail after parents turned in their child's ex boyfriend/girlfriend. Not good.
2006-09-13 18:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by trash1ey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your doing the right thing. Just be friends for now. I know people say friends & Lovers don't make for a good relationship. Personally I deagree with that.
2006-09-13 19:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by Myke BoDean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until she is older. Your feelings might change- and even though you two are close in age...maturity levels might be different. There is no pain in just hanging out and letting time do it's thing basically.
2006-09-13 18:44:29 · answer #6 · answered by lix321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey id say go for it.
its acaully not that big of an age difference.
3 years
compared to 36 year olds dating 18 years olds
which i find repulsive.
if shes mature enough than it shouldnt matter.
2006-09-13 18:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by DyingFetus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun rush things, just get to know her more and take things slowly. if she proves to be what u look for in a gf then tell her how u feel for her.
2006-09-13 18:46:46 · answer #8 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you already know the best answer. And your right.
2006-09-13 18:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Desi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her visit you in canada. There's no harm in a non-sexual relationship.
2006-09-13 18:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by kickbutt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋