i really dont know why,but sometimes i like this guy name Jordan and sometimes i dont.I dont know what to choose i mean my feelings for him are all mixed up=(can someone give me some advice...please....btw(i dont like him sometimes when hes with his friends...hes all different)
2006-09-13 18:39:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The user above is NOT chetco, but a rude clone..Please note his level.
2006-09-13 18:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by Chetco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is just it, he is a different person when with his friends. I would say that Jordan is not very mature and that is the reason why he acts the way he does.
As long as he treats you the same whether you are alone or in company, I'd have no problem with it. However, if he acts different with you when with other people, it shows that he's not mature enough to have a relationship with you.
2006-09-13 18:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are different around friends. Most anyway. I think everyone has a particular "self" that they present in various situations. If you like him when you and he are away from his friends, you may want to spend more time with him in that mode, and get integrated with the friends. He will either modify his behavior because of your presence (which he should to a degree) or still be an idiot. If he is still an idiot move on.
2006-09-13 18:43:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, you need to let it go, seriously. im not trying to sound mean or anything, but if he can't be the same way around u no matter if his friends are around or not, then he doesn't deserve u. it also doesn't help that u keep hanging on. he knows that u want him, and that no matter what ur gonna want him, so he takes advantage of that. don't be over-available just because u like him. leave him alone and see what happens. if he likes u the way that u like him, then everything will work out
2006-09-13 18:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by tyra p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean... It's not cool when guys are like that, all nice when they're around you, then as soon as their mates come along they try & be all macho trying to impress his mates... Maybe you should distance yourself when he's with his mates, that way maybe he'll try harder because guys like to chase... & if he doesn't.. I dono guys can just be so crap... He doesn't sound that mature, maybe he needs some time to grow up... If he doesn't kick his game soon, try & distance yourself & look for another guy who's nice all the time not confusing....
2006-09-13 18:49:12 · answer #5 · answered by idk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is an age old situation, most guys will act differently around their friends, because they don't want to seem weak in front of them, but....... in time you will become more important to him than them, it never fails. The question is, doyou have what it takes to hang until that time.
When in Rome do as the Romans, because one day you will be his Cleopatra and no one will be able to compete with you for his attention.
If you want him, be patient
2006-09-13 18:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by cdubsj2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly a guy thing as well. i mean theres some girls that will catch ur eye then the next day its like she aint lookin too hot or just not attracting me. but in ur case u just dont like how he acts with his friends. well believe me when its just u&him alone & together the REAL him should come out.
2006-09-13 18:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I have one of those his name is Dan we work together sometimes I cant wait to see him other times I wanna call in sick! Its a girl thing!
2006-09-13 18:41:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try cloning him and then keep him im a closet for yourself or just kill all his friends or maybe you tell him what you told all of us,but not with his friends around and then see how it goes.one question to you has he been friends with his friends longer then you,think about that and then after you have talked be patient you might be surprized and i hope in agood way good luck
2006-09-13 18:43:17 · answer #9 · answered by poebimbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are stupid this way. sometimes they are mean to try to flirt. But if he ever disrespects you, then just forget about him. try to spend some more time with him and show him that maybe you like him. If he likes you, he'll straighten up.
2006-09-13 18:42:11 · answer #10 · answered by -- 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋