Me and my ex broke up a year and a half ago when I moved to college because he could not handle the long distance. We havve continued to stay friends and both still have strong emotions for each other. He just said we are both living seperate lives and it was too hard for him. He calls me about every two weeks and we see each other now and then. This has been going on for a year and a half now and I realized recently that it needs to stop because its holding me back from other relationships. He tells me he likes to talk to me, I still mean a lot to him....etc. So I decided that I wouldn't answer his calls and he kept on calling and calling. When I finally called him back after he called three days in a row!!.. he told me the same old thing..want to see how ur doing etc. IF thats all he wanted why did he call three days in a row? GUYS..would you do this? does it mean he really still likes me or what? He said he wouldnt call me if I dont want him to anymore..is he hurting?
2006-09-13 17:53:02 · 6 answers · asked by Alexandra G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm, is he hurting?, uh, duh, yes he is hurting bad. he is dying. ur killing him slowly. after 1 1/2 yrs and he's still calling that often and you have to ask?...is ur skull xtra thick? ... he wants u back so bad he can still taste you ... if you really care for him then either go back to him or tell him its over forever, final answer, stop calling, { ur killing him } ....... {( ^ O ^ )}
2006-09-13 18:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Mojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could just be that he was concerned about you. You say you've been talking like this for a year which means you've probably always called him back. I think it is nice he was concerned about you.
However, I think it is time for the talk. It is either on or off but the something in between obviously isn't working for you.
2006-09-14 00:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he needs to get a life and look for chicks in his own neighborhood. Don't subject yourself to his obsession.
2006-09-14 01:21:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not mean much.It is a kind of Pavlovian conditioning since he got used to talking to you.
2006-09-14 00:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE HE STILL HAS FEELING FOR YOU. BUT YOU
NEED TO LET HIM KNOW THAT IT IS OVER AND YOU WOULD
LIKE HIM TO STOP CALLING YOU. THE MORE YOU TALK TO'
HIM THE HARD IT WILL GET TO LET GO. TIME TO MOVE ON
2006-09-14 00:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by LUCKYSTAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is still hurting...........i gave my girlfriend a phone.......i text her and call her....but she dont call me much.........he still have feeling for you
2006-09-14 00:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋