virginity...?

Question

is it worth waiting untill i am married or should i lose it 2 my boyfriend on our 6th month anniv.

Answer 1

um... to "lose it" on an anniversary seems insincere. If you want to "give it" to him that's different, but it should be because you want to, and not because it's "time."
It's a really personal decision... I don't know you and I don't know how old you and your bf are, or how serious you are about each other... but please, don't let him pressure you into it on a 'special day' and don't beat yourself up over it if you decide to and feel regret later. If you want to wait, then wait. It's easier to change that decision than it is to undo intimacy, which is really what this is about. It's a lot harder to break up with someone you've been intimate with.

Answer 2

It's a noble thing to wait until you're married but what if you wait and it's no good?! Sex isn't everything but it is still important in a relationship so whu not start when you feel you're ready. People don't worry about marrying a virgin these days. They're more interested in someone who enjoys life, is great fun and is worth being around. And if you've learnt a few tricks to us ein the bedroom then what a bonus for him. He's not going to want to know how yoou learnt it because he'll be too busy enjoying you. If you're old enough and you feel you're ready and with someone yoou want to do it with, go ahead and enjoy.

Answer 3

Neither. You are making too much of a big deal out of it. I congratulate you on having the good sense not to sleep around and catch a disease, but don't pat yourself on the back too hard for being a virgin, either.
I sincerely hope there is more to your life, such as school/work, hobbies, friends, etc than being a virgin or not.
I also do not advocate "waiting for marriage". You should know before then if you and your future spouse are sexually compatible. Sex isn't everything, but neither is virginity.

Answer 4

My personal belief is that you don't have to wait until marrage. However! and this is a big one: I will only do it with a woman that I am in a serious relationship with and that I LOVE. If you don't see yourself with them in 6 months, 1 year, etc, then I would hold back until the two of you decide for sure what your feelings are.

Answer 5

Yes, with every fibre in my body, it IS worth waiting. Take it from someone who lost it to someone I loved then but all the emotions blurred it.. and now things haven't worked out and I wish I had saved it for my husband. You don't want to have unwanted flashbacks in the future IF things dun work out with the current. 6 mths is too short and too early. Do all u can to hold out. it IS worth it. Don't make the same mistake many others did.

Answer 6

Wait...its definitely worth waiting. I had a friend who lost her virginity to her high school sweet heart. She thought they would be together forever and they ended up breaking up. She felt really guilty and it completely ruined her life. Now she sleeps with all sorts of guys that are completely wrong for her just because she thinks that she doesn't deserve better.

Answer 7

You should wait until your ready, but no one is ever really ready. The first time is going to be uncomfortable and awkward, but it's not as big a deal as the emphasis you put on it. Just make sure you use protection and the guy is not a total jerk, good luck.

Answer 8

6 months? What kind of a milestone is that?

I do not know any women that wish they lost theirs any younger than they did, most wish they would have waited until they were older.

You are going to have all kinds of guys try to get in your pants for the rest of your life, do yourself a favor and learn to say no to them early on or they will use you until you are all used up.

Answer 9

wait untill you have more that just a 6 month anni, after a lifetime of happiness with some one 6 months seems like a blink of an eye.

Answer 10

It's not really a question if other people find it worth it, but do you find your boyfriend worthy enough of your virginity.