I'm kinda scared of having sex with my husband if I ever have one just from all the stuff that I've learned in health which is better to do it naturally or to adopt please tell me because I really would like to know which is the real best
2006-09-13 17:14:19 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah S 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Why would you adopt if you can have your own? Unless you are incapable of having babies, then adoption will be the option
2006-09-13 17:23:09 · answer #1 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you even thinking of having a Husband if you are not ready to do so ?
Why are you thinking of having a husband if you think that you are scared of sex ?
Why are you thinking of adopting when you are not going to have a husband ?
Please look up single Parents on google. Sit there and read the details therein, then please ask yourself if you want to be a single mother, at least for that kids that you adopt.
I always thought that for the healthy development of a child both parents were needed. perhaps I was wrong. I read in Wiki" Statistically, children in single parent homes fare worse than those with two parents".
Perhaps I was wrong.
2006-09-14 00:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by ArnieSchivaSchangaran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you could adopt there are not enough people adopting these days due to IVF programs and things like making it possible for people to have babies where in the past if they did not could not get pregnant they would adopt but not so these days. Good on ya if that is the way you want to go.
2006-09-14 00:44:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should adopt if you really want to, not because you're afraid of sex. some people really want their own kids. others can't have children naturally so they adopt. still others would rather give an unwanted or orphaned child a home.
i've heard that adoption is a long and harrowing process though, so keep that in mind.
2006-09-14 00:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by shrimpylicious 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should do what you want!There is so many children brought into this world,and weather it be something happen to their parents or they don't want their baby.They need a home and deserve a good home where they will be loved!But having your own baby is so special too!You can do both!Just ask yourself,if you decide not to have children,will you regret it when you're older?God Bless and Good Luck!In whatever you want in life!
2006-09-14 00:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. Do you really plan on never having sex with your husband? Health class just doesn't want to encourage you to have sex when your younger. Go ahead and have sex with your husband if you can have children.
2006-09-14 00:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by answergirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have your own kids. It could take years to adopt and being adopted sucks!!! I know because I am adopted. I am lucky though that I can have my own kids.
2006-09-14 01:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is older? 30's,40's,?...I have heard that if if your older and it's your FIRST child, there is more of a chance of downsyndrom, like at the age of say 40, versus having a second child at the age of 40. I have read that years ago, can't remember where though.
2006-09-14 00:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I adopted most of my family out of homes and it is great! it is rough at first to get styles smoothed out but after you do it is pure joy every day. my family is my joy.
2006-09-14 00:26:02 · answer #9 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋