iam i ugly?

Question

i dont under stand why dosent any of the boys like me
i have brown hair,blue eyes,am 5'3, i weigh 84 pounds i have lots of friends iam in middle school iam athletic,good sence of humor,

Answer 1

Sorry I haven't seen you before, so I won't know..

But inner beauty is what counts most, not outer beauty.. don't you think?

Answer 2

Don't ever think you're ugly! Everyone is attractive in their own way. You just have to find the right kind of guy who's attracted to you. Remember! "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." Also, you may not be "putting yourself out there." Meaning, are you shy or not that forward, so guys don't easily come up and talk to you? I used to be that way in middle school. Now 15 years later I understand that if a person is unapproachable, it doesn't matter what they look like, people are not going to want to get to know them. I also used to wonder when I'd get a boyfriend. But, once I stopped caring about it, it happened.

Honey, you have a long life ahead of you. You WILL have a boyfriend one day. Don't stress yourself over it now. Enjoy time with your girl friends and family, and even get to know yourself! =) Good luck!

Answer 3

maybe because you're underweight? Sorry, its hard to answer your question since you didn't even post a picture. What I do know is....in middle school, boys are immature and are either "madly in love" or keep their distance, or come off as being jerks to you! Don't fret too much about the boys, you still have plenty of time! Wait til high school, then worry if you're still not being asked out. Sometimes, boys are intimidated by girls that are perceived as being "popular" for fear of being rejected. Have you tried to make the first move? AND if you have and are still getting rejected, then I would ask those girlfriends of yours for advice. In the meantime, work on your self esteem! If you really liked yourself you wouldn't be asking this question!
Good luck and just be a friend to everyone!

Answer 4

Ok you sound like me in middle school - a late developer (if you weigh 84 pounds, you are probably a little behind in growth??). I didn't wear a bra until eighth grade, and no boys ever liked me. Then I hit high school, a growth spurt, and I've had no problems attracting men since. Don't even worry about it - before you know it they'll be lined up at your door.

Answer 5

You're in middle school!!!!! There's no reason for the guys to be flocking to you right way.

Besides that, if you want guys to approach you, make yourself approachable. No one will see your wicked sense of humor if you don't let people meet you. Just smile at people and be friendly. You can always go up to guys too, there's no law against it.

And middle school guys don't know what they want yet. You seem pretty awesome, but most of the boys won't have realized that you're a cool girl yet. Give them time, they'll come around!

Answer 6

Dang 5'3" and 84 pds sounds alright and your picture looks hot, oh wait...we are missing one thing....YOUR PICTURE! Knowing all the things are great but looking at your aviator doesn't help. Other than that like someone already said, you aren't going to be getting married anytime soon so just chill and have fun being young! You can never go back to being young but boys and men will always be around!

Answer 7

You do not have the talents for connecting to the other people and that may be the only problem. I had seen very good looking boys very very ugly girls in strong bonds. It is a skill. Beauty is no reason. Now you may need some counseling to entangle with the boys. Once you gain that I am sure boys will queue up for you. Try to learn the skills from the most "dating" successful girls around. Good luck to you.

Answer 8

boys devlope slower than girl meaning they dont always know what is pretty you sound like a very lovely young lady dont worry what the boys say i was nearly 6ft tall in middle school and all the boys were so short they were intematmed by my size but just 3 yrs later when they grew p all was well just wait you day will come and until then don worry b happy there is more to life than boys you got a whole life ahead of you to worry about them god bless

Answer 9

some boy's at that age are jerks were others are not. there might be a boy that likes you right now but it too shy to tell you. you never know. just start talking too guy's. if you have the same class with a nice boy then just talk to him about a test or some event in schoolor ask him he want's to eat lunch with you.. the mane thing is to go out there and start talking to the guy's. then they WILL notice you! be nice and caring look at them in the eye when you talk and smile a lot! good luck! :)

Answer 10

You are as pretty on the outside as you feel on the inside. How do you know for sure no boys like you? Did they take a class vote? Maybe you shouldn't worry so much, you're young, you will have plenty of boys in your life soon enough.

Answer 11

Maybe your attitude is a little bit wrong toward boys, I know some of the most beautifully and talented girls that don't have boyfriend just because they can't maintain attitude. Try to be more friendly and sometimes you must do something like a little bit of teasing...and then it will work.