she leads a very secretive life from me i can feel it i can see it i justr cant catch her at it cause of some very high tech equipment i love her so much but yet i cant tell if she does anymore she is very convincing to me so i am just waiting for the shoe to drop what should i do
2006-09-13 16:57:18 · 14 answers · asked by Aaron W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get an agent.hehe i have know idea. she probaly just needs space.
2006-09-13 16:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by JesusFreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Tell her that you feel there are some secrets in her life and you are uncomfortable with. Do not ask her to explain because she may start lying, or twisting the truth to make you feel beter or to try to explain her actions. It is better for you just to explain your feeling and not ask her to explain away her actions, and then set some boundaries for your self and her. For example: be strong enough in yourself to analyse her actions independently and if you truely believe she is doing things that would hurt your relationship or that you feel are wrong, you do not have to explain to her why you are walking away. Just realise the person that you love isn't her. However you might also like to know that some people act in a secretive manner not because they are doing things wrong but because their privacy has been invaded and they are trying to establish some privacy.
2006-09-14 00:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by newrabbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust the one you're with then you don't need to be with them. If someone wants to cheat they will find a way no matter how much you try to watch them. In most cases you could lead someone into leaving you by being too untrustworthy of them. Now grow some balls and stop being such a whiney potential stalker type.
2006-09-14 00:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by BURGIN24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure she is not secretive bec she is fooling around coz that would be a different story. dont give her ur 100% trust and it is okey to love her but give ur self a space just in case something happen. love her bur love urself too. besides a relationship shld be bounded by trust and loyalty if ur missing this two factors then ur going nowhere. just think it through.
2006-09-14 00:02:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there might be a trust issue with the girl you are with now?? If so, find a girl that you dont have to spy on. Good luck
2006-09-14 00:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't trust her at all, despite what any girl ever says if they walk out on you like that they're likely cheating. Ask her questions about everything with ever little detail and don't forget anything.
They are masters at lying and manipulating, don't buy it.
Bro's before ho's.
2006-09-14 00:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Alabama lib killer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has something she dont want known and that is legal on her part . but when you do what you typed in that is called .stalking as well envesaion of privacey pal not to smart. my opion?
2006-09-14 00:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some help!
2006-09-14 00:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave - she's already in the process of doing so, it sounds like. I'm sorry.
2006-09-14 00:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by niwriffej 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you either talk to her about it or leave her!!! It may not be as bad as you think!!!
2006-09-14 00:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋