i slept with my new bf last nite ... it was my first time and im really sore and in pain ......
is this nomal ?
2006-09-13 16:53:52 · 22 answers · asked by Maria N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its definitly normal if u just lost ur virginity...
2006-09-13 16:57:00 · answer #1 · answered by CrystalRose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really think it should be painful. Mine didn't hurt, there was discomfort but not excruciating pain. Maybe you should take some motrin and see how you feel tomorrow. If the pain is still there maybe you can call like a teen hotline or planned parenting for some advice. I hope you feel better!! Don't regret it though because that's the worst kind of pain.. Anyway good luck.
2006-09-13 16:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by * Wishfulthinker * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. It is to be expected, you're just not used to things being in there! Just pop a painkiller and take it easy on the humpty-bump for a while so you can recuperate.
After you've been with your guy a few times you'll not feel any pain, and you'll know what you both like. It only gets better, believe me!!!
2006-09-13 16:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Samwise Potter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women often feel pain for a day or two after loosing your virginity. This isn't anything to worry about. If it persists or you have addition problems then you might want to consult a doctor, but normally you'll be back to normal in no time. Just be safe and you'll have nothing to worry about!
2006-09-13 16:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal. It will pass and so will the pain. Try to space this time and the next time out a few days so ur body can adjust. Good luck :)
2006-09-13 16:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is normal it doesn't hurt like that but since it was your first time your not use to having a penis inside of you it get better both ways the pain goes away and you also might have an orgasim
2006-09-13 17:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by prettynpink0123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a shower if you haven't already. That helps. Then rest and take it easy. If you feel really bad, have a girlfriend or your mom or sister take you to the gynecologist. Plan to avoid sex for awhile.
2006-09-13 17:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep totally normal... will prob hurt the first few times, but dont worry, it gets better... just make sure he is gentle and that youre wet - helps to ease the pain...
2006-09-13 16:58:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, a little. try wrapping some ice in a towel and putting it down there. it will help ease some of the discomfort
2006-09-13 16:57:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's normal. just tell your boyfriend that you're sore from his penis being too big and it will give him a huge ego boost. don't tell him that it was painful and you didn't like it though. that would hurt his feelings :)
2006-09-13 17:02:09 · answer #10 · answered by cramner25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal especially if he has a big you know what. Soak in a warm bath.
2006-09-13 17:06:32 · answer #11 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋