We have homecoming next week and on friday night is our party. How can i go with letting my parents think i am not drinking there or somewhere else.
2006-09-13 16:43:44 · 20 answers · asked by saintssuck51 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Honestly? Unless you've already created trust issues with your parents because of drinking/drugs/sex..., then I would just tell them. If they find out that you've gone to this party and lied about it, you will have issues for a long, long time to come. I had problems from them myself. And it took a long time to get their trust back. Tell them that so and so (whoever) is going with you, give them phone numbers and address. If they show up then say, ohh....well she already left. But whatever you do don't drink and drive. I lost a friend my sophmore year because she got into a car with another girl who had been drinking.
2006-09-13 16:56:21 · answer #1 · answered by fiestyredhead 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents were teenager once you know - hard to believe but true. You need your parents so be honest with them and earn their trust. If something happens on Friday and you need a lift or need to be picked up your parents are the best ones to do it. Drinking is not so good - there are reasons that governments put age limits on it you know and it is not just to spoil teenagers fun. a drink with your parents at home is ok on a special occasion but alcohol can play funny tricks on you and before you know it you cant remember or you feel really terrible. Try and give it a miss for now and dont let your friends put you down for it either. you are better off lying to your friends than your parents
2006-09-13 19:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by PERCY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 00:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them the truth, the best way to have their trust and so they can trust you more so you can do more stuff with your friends is to tell them the truth because they love you and want you to be safe. Just tell them you're having a party with no alcohol and a couple of your friends are gonna be there. Then tell them you want to spend the night over at a friends house and call them when you get there to let them know you're safe and responsible.
2006-09-13 16:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents will have to either trust you a lot, be incredibly stupid, or not care about you, to let you get away with what you are planning. Alcohol is big contributor to date rape, as well as fatal car accidents. If you get into a situation that you feel is out of control, you need to be able to call your parents for help. Whatever you tell them, make sure your conscience is clean enough that you can still call home if you need to.
2006-09-13 16:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea bad bad idea. Talk to your parents. I realize you may not like to have them set guidelines but if you do drink you could make choices you wouldn't ordinarily make. It isn't fun to drink and end up sick and looking a wreck anyway. Have real fun at the dance. You will be better for it.
2006-09-13 16:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by JULIE J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust my dear must be earned. Have u done anything that may make them think that they can trust you? Are you always on time? Do you come hom on time? Do you ask before you take things do you show them respect? I say show them respect and that you can be trusted then it wont be so stresfull when you participate in an event good luck on your journey of life.
2006-09-14 02:37:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really irresponsible to lie to your parents. Teens are always complaining how their parents don't treat them like adults, and there is a good reason for that...YOU ARE NOT ADULTS. You should not be out drinking! If you want your parents to trust you, then you need to not give them a reason not to trust you!
2006-09-13 16:51:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't try to decieve them because if you do, you could get caught and be in big trouble. Even worse, if the cops raid the party you're at, you could get arrested.
2006-09-13 16:52:44 · answer #9 · answered by bookworm_382 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be up front and honest with them, this is the way you will gain your parents trust.
2006-09-13 16:48:49 · answer #10 · answered by jakesmom 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋