My best friend has a bf that constanly cheats on her. I tried to tell her to leave but she insist on giving him chance after chance. Im really tried of seeing her get hurt. And he bf is a jerk. What can I do
2006-09-13 16:35:11 · 5 answers · asked by dcutegirl06 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her know that this is the last time you are going to tell her... then ignore it or her. However... she doesnt deserve to get treated like that but you shouldnt have to listen to her cry over him each time that it happens if you have forewarned her... Good Luck and God Bless.
2006-09-13 16:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by ashley65@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You can do nothing about it except stand by her and hold her hand when she cries that he cheated on her again. I know you're tired of seeing her get hurt and that he's a jerk but unless she admits all that to herself, she's in for a real sad life.
You did the best you could. No one can say you didn't.
2006-09-13 23:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, there is nothing you can do. I used to be in the same situation. My friend also didn't leave her b/f. Worse, she told him what I said. Yeah, go figure. Luckily, our friendship wasn't ruined because of this. From then on, I learned to keep my mouth shut because she was the only one who decides what she wants to do. My friend is no longer dating this guy. On the flip side, because she already knew how I hated him, she never told me when things were going wrong for them. She chose not to confide in me anymore. My advice for you... just stay around in case she needs a shoulder to cry out. Ultimately, she won't leave him until she thinks she can't put up w/ him anymore. Good luck!
2006-09-13 23:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by erinlovestv 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nothing you tell her will change her, unless she wants it herself. So, you just have to accept her as she is, if you considers her a good friend.
She needs something very drastic to happen before she accepts the truth.
Maybe a psychiatrist can help her face the truth.
2006-09-13 23:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
nothing. you tried, she doesn't want to hear it so don't keep saying it or she'll pick loser-boy over your friendship.
2006-09-13 23:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋