My girlfriend ran away for 8 hours, i was histerical, she called me at a gas station phone when she decided to return, is it wrong to be angry? Should I be suspicious? Is it a cry for help? Pick one...
2006-09-13 16:30:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you are angry because you love her and she scared you into thinking she would never return. If she took off it is because something is seriously bugging her. You two need to sit down and open the flow of communication and get down to what is bothering her. Its amazing what talking can do.
I think the only reason you should be suspicious is if you have felt that she was cheating on you prior to her leaving. If you haven't I wouldn't go and accuse her of it.
2006-09-13 16:44:54 · answer #1 · answered by val h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a cry for help. Eight hours of running may not seem like a lot but it is when you're angry or upset. She's not communicating with you. Did you have to pick her up at the gas station? She's controlling you with this behavior. I wouldn't be as suspicious as I would be bloody angry.
I think you guys need a serious break from each other.
2006-09-13 16:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is a minor, did her parents react suitably? They and you know her and must have a clue as to the motivation. Did she apologize for making you hysterical? What was her explanation for her doing such a thing? Why did she do it? Was she running from something or someone or running to someone or something? If her responses to most questions were, "I don't know," then you have a problem because she doesn't have a problem using you but she does have a problem confiding in you. Probably, she's looking for attention and trying to get you jealous, etc Those are little girl tactics, not normal for anyone over 16. Yes, you can be mad and demand explanations. If nothing forthcoming, her parents should get her seen at an adolescent clinic.
2006-09-13 16:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean "run away"????
So she needed some time apart from you.. so what?
It was just a few hours.
Maybe you're overreacting. I don't think it is a cry for help.
But it sounds as if you treat her like a child. The both of you should have a heart to heart talk and get down to the reason of her action which seems to have caused you so much dismay.
2006-09-13 16:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by Cassandra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't wrong to be angry but you also have to be understanding as to why she ran away. Don't be suspicious unless you know there is good reason for it. Suspicion is like jealousy, it shows your weakness and insecurities. And yes, it is a cry for help.
2006-09-13 16:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get hysterical? Adults can go wherever they want. How old is she? If she is 13 and told you she is running away, yes, it is a cry for help, get her into counseling. If she is 20 and left . . . please. Again, why get hysterical? Did she threaten suicide? What's really going on?
2006-09-13 16:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by gator girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be angry, because she should have told you the problem first, but don't be angry for long. She might need your help. You need to talk to her. She needs to talk to you. It's probablly a cry for help, but only you can find out by talking to her.
2006-09-13 16:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old is this girl? Is she a minor?
If this is an adult you are talking about, get away from that train wreck!!
Remember the 'run away bride'?? Well, here you have the 'run away girlfriend'!!
Let her go, she might be unstable. . . .leave it up to the professionals!!
2006-09-13 16:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by geminisista 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Did u guys hav a fight or disagreement or maybe she needed sometime alone. she may of felt pressured or smuthered so she may of felt that she needed to escape. but i dont agree with ony of ur reasons, just sit down with her and talk.
2006-09-13 16:35:18 · answer #9 · answered by MasterChief 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be angry for her to worry you, but, at the same time I would sit down and talk it out with her.
2006-09-13 16:33:51 · answer #10 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋