my guy friend really likes me but i dont like him back.He always tell me how much he loves me ,but ughhh he is like obsesse wit me.He is not that good lookig at all. Pluse he is sensetive which makes it worse i went out wit 2 times cuz everyone told me he was a good guy and was nice and be begged me and i didnt want to be mean so i said yes.Many people know now which sucks i borke up wit him the second time cuz i couldent take it anymore i didnt like that at all.He still likes me i try to be mean to him but its not working .How do i control this its driving me ******* nuts!?
2006-09-13 16:28:06 · 10 answers · asked by cassie p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get him alone and tell him straight up that you just don't think it is going to ever work out between the two of you to date one another.......If he doesn't leave you alone after that, tell an adult (if you aren't 18 yet) that he is harassing you.......Take care, dear.......
2006-09-13 16:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and stop treating him like sh*t!! Try being a bit more mature, sit him down, just the two of you, perthaps in a quiet coffee shop or something and tell him there is just no way you feel enough for him for it to be anything more than friends. Tell him you feel pressured by him and that it will ultimately ruin youor friendship if he doesn't accept it for what it is - just friends.
2006-09-14 01:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Barry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're obviously young...
Don't be mean to him. Don't ignore him. You're not attracted to him, that's all. He's not doing it to drive you nuts. He thinks he's in love. Maybe he is, but you don't love him back. He's pushed you into this position. It wasn't right but he didn't give you a lot of choice in the matter.
You've got to come clean with him. That, or find a real boyfriend.
2006-09-13 23:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually went through this problem with a girl i was friends with,even though im georgeous. It took me a while to realize what i needed to do to get over it, and finally i realized i just couldnt be her friend anymore. I never told her how i felt, so hes already one step ahead of me. So, it might seem hard, but for his own good stop hanging out with him, as it will only get worse as time goes on. He'll eventually get over it and move on with his life.
2006-09-13 23:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by anondewd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I would say you can sit down with him and really tell him how you feel but I don't think he got the point when you broke up with him. Ok you said you were mean to him but did you actually hurt his feelings but I don't think you should take that route. Just try talking to him.
2006-09-13 23:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by josh w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate to him that if he is not going to respect the fact that you only wish to be friends with him that you'll simply have to stop associating with him at all.
2006-09-13 23:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the jimmy J/k just sit him down tell him that you dont feel the same way and if he can have that then you cant be friends
2006-09-13 23:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by the_trix_rab_bit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're already fair to him. so If you don't like and never to like him at all times, you may get out of his sight. Live far away with him.
2006-09-13 23:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sir Torex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM YOU ARE NOT INTO BOYS AND YOU ONLY WANT A FRIEND RIGHT NOW
2006-09-13 23:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by justjackinknox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print this question and give it to him.
2006-09-13 23:31:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Superman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋