and my boyfriend knows that i'm not but his parents are so sure that i am. Should i ignore them or should i say something
2006-09-13 16:18:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore the parents... as long as your true to your boy then nothing else will matter... forget them... your boyfriend's opnion matters the most... and the parents well... i could say less for them....
2006-09-13 16:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, now I'm making a connection between this & your last question about leaving home.
When you left home, did you end up over at your Bf's house?
And is your Bf's house really his parents house?
Now , if you answer "Yes" to the above two questions, then is it possible that they really don't want you there, & are trying to drive a wedge between you & your Bf so they can get you out of the house?
If that is possible, then it is also possible that they said yes to their son when he asked if they would take you in, because they don't like to say NO to him, & now instead of being the "Bad Guys" here they want to manipulate the situation until their little boy turns against you, & gives you a kick to the curb.
If everything I said here has a ring of truth to it, then your next move depends on your Bf.
If he see's through his parents tactics then you guys have a hope of having a lasting relationship.
On the other hand, if you agree that what I said may be what's going on & he doesn't, then you need to start making plans to live somewhere else soon.
This isn't a hard & fast rule, but if you want to get a glimpse into the future & see what kind of a husband or partner your Bf will make, just take a look at his Father.
Good Luck!
2006-09-14 00:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring the parents aren't solving issues but instead talk or prove it to them that you are not the person they were thinking of.
2006-09-13 23:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by Cathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them and try not to put yourself in the position that they would feel the need to question your loyalty to their son.
2006-09-13 23:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them, and prove that you arent cheating on him.
2006-09-13 23:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by traveling_soldier6784 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore...time will prove it to them
2006-09-13 23:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they saying something to you directly or is he saying it to you and making like they said it?
2006-09-13 23:21:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them. their just making themselves look like jackasses.
2006-09-13 23:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Gina Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what gives them the urge to say that to begin with??????
2006-09-13 23:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋