Expirenced daters... what is best kind of date if you want to go far with her??

Question

Okay i met this gurl in my english class like 3 days ago... i got her number today and im going to ask her tommorow on a date... bbut i dont know wheather i should do it in person tommrow when i see her at 11:00 or should I ask her over the phone... okay then i know i want to take her to dinner so we can talk but should i do a movie afterwards or should i ask her what she wants to do prior to the date... holding hand, putting my arm around her... good for the first date or not?? what about the good night kiss?? and finally when would be the best time to ask her out again if all goes well... keep in mind i see her almost every day!!

Answer 1

I hope she's a lesbo because you seem like a total vag...

Answer 2

Alright pimp- first of all- LOOSEN UP MAN! You cant be asking all these questions while your on the date! You just gotta be natural. Girls like it when a guy is spontaneous. I'm sure she would rather you ask her out in person,as this shows a little more intamacy than asking her on the phone. Then , while on the date watch her body language. if she seems appauled when you stare into her eyes, then dont try to make your move on her. Finally, women always like to talk on the phone, so the next day after the date give her a call and see what shes doing. Just stay calm and youll be gravy.

Answer 3

Ask her on the phone, in person is risky because you have an audience if anything goes...er, sour.

Don't wait to call, girls hate waiting.

Ask her what she wants to do, come to an agreement together.

Have ideas if she pulls a 'I don't know, whatever you want to do'.

As date goes on you'll know whether she's open to your touch.

Lots of smiles, laughing, and a few innocent touches on her part is a green light. Quietness, walking far away from you, rarely smiling and looking around the room as if for something to do is a RED light.

Go for the kiss. Gotta at least try.

Call her that night if all goes well, tell her you missed her (corny yes, but she'll eat it up) and when can you take her out again?

Answer 4

okay guy here's what i think you should do if u want to date her:

1. you just got her number so dont u think holding hands is a bit much?
2. i suggest doing something casual like lunch (if possible) 1st. So it wont seem like u are coming on too strong. Date is Too strong of a word for some1 u just started talking to
3. Talk to her on the phone b4 u go on a real date so u get know her 4 real
4. if u insist on the "go to date 1st approach." I would ask her in person go to the movies and not be too forward

Answer 5

Ask her in person, don't go to the movies too awkward cause you can't really talk, stick to dinner and then take a walk somewhere then if she's boring you can end it soon, don't hold her hand thats too intimate arm around is fine though kiss: give her a peck dont' make out with her keep her guessing

Answer 6

Just take things slow and let them happen naturally, you both will know when it's time to do all of the things you describe in your question.

Always ask for the date in person.

Just remember not to rush intimacy because it just doesn't work that way for girls.

Answer 7

wow.. none of these guys know what they are talking about.. robotal got some decent tips but some I don't agree to. lucy's is not bad too but don't listen to her on the part about calling her that night.

I would give my input but my style may not be sutible for you at this moment.


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Answer 8

buy a air plane ticket you both can go as far as the air plane will take you.

Answer 9

Use drugs and duct tape.