Girls only please......what do i do now?

Question

i have this problem.well but its kinda my fault.although i tried to fix it.anyway here goes.my girlfriend and i were dating for almost a year it would have been a year on oct.4 well anyway on monday of this week she broke up with me, well more or less her parents made her break up with me. y did they do that? well i did somthing really dumb....i started to smoke weed,pot,mary j,whatever you want to call it i started it...it wasnt because of pressure or anything it was because i wanted to do it and so i found it and did it...so yea they made her break up with me...theres only one thing though...i turned myself in like a mont before she broke u ...i couldnt take lying to my friends and family anymore...well i almost got turned into the cops, i almost went to millitary school...ect...im 15 so thats y the cops and everything would be put into play, i feel dumb for what i did but i did try to fix it... this is where the reall problem starts if im clean untill dec. i can date her again but

but how do i know that she wont start liking anyone else.....she still tells me that she loves me(which is what allows me to get through) and i was goin to try to talk to her parents about the whole thing.....do you think that thats a good idea.....oh and i turned myself in before she broke up with me......abobout a month and a half before.....and i've been clean ever since

Answer 1

but what????
Just stay clean, for the rest of your life, if you really like/love this girl.

Answer 2

take your problem and solve them one at a time
about your girlfriend stop being paranoid if she is meant for you she is meant for you no point in stressing yourself over winning her back, if she is worthy of your love and if its true that she does love you she will stick with you and help you through the end, youre only 15 you dont really really understand what love and commitment is, so my advise to you give both of you some space and time away from each other
let her go for a while, let yourself free for a while just to see and examine your life and your options, my gosh youre only 15 she is not the only girl
instead focus on rehabilitating yourself if you really want your life to be fruitful, do worthy things, hobbies, join clubs, sports, go back to society and contribute something worthwhile, youre only 15 read books, broaden your concept of life
there are more and better things in life to think about rather than girlfriends, you made a mistake by taking pot, ok thats finished go move on to another chapter, become someone useful dont focus your life on this girlfriend eventhough you like her too much right now its too early to invest so much on her she might not even be the right woman for you
let time do its job, make yourself better, improve talents and skills before you love and devote yourself to someone else learn to love yourself first
boost your self esteem, be learned, be ready for the world
not only for one person and her parents
do more,,,be more!!!!

Answer 3

stop smoking and prove ur love or whatever u r only 15 dont mess up ur life and take her down with u

Answer 4

So you think cops woulda been put into play simply because you're 15? Pot is illegal regardless of your age....silly guy

Answer 5

just stay clean and do your best to change for the better...
=) good luck...


oh and try your best to prove to her and her family (and yours) that you will definitely change and do your best from now on..