What would you think, please answer truthfully? What should I do?
Ok.. this is what a girl that i like replied to my email, askin how she felt about me,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
ok, now shes 13 I'm 15. We've been friends since like I wuz 7. Now it is totally obvious, because she makes herself perfectly clear, that she wants nothing more than to be friends. I am respeceting that, and giving her space, we havent talked about it 4 3 weeks. My question is, does she like me at all, or is she scared, cuz she says she doesnt want to ruin a friendship??
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3 hours ago
But, like a few months ago, it was completely obvious she liked me, I mean people thought we were dating, then she found out I liked her, and she reall backed off. And she told her mom, who she is really close to , that she is really scared, because she doesnt want to take the chance of ruining the friendship. But what should I do/ think:? Because, now she is like totally all over these other guys, like she used to be with me, and it rips my heart out. And please dont tell me I'm to young, I have like many girls, but none like her. I've been trying to let this go forever, but it is really really hard, because I really care for her, I would do anything in this world, anything to be with her, but I want her to be happy , and if shes not happy with me, thats fine. But what should i do?
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5 hours ago
I mean she's never beenin a relationship, so she could be scared, will anything ever happen in the future, I mean I am respecting her wishes, and she knows that, We havent talked about it for a long time, could anything possibly happen in the future??
2006-09-13 15:43:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u wantpeople to take time out of their lives to help u out least u could do was not write a freaking novel..i lost interest man sorry!
2006-09-13 15:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by lolli_pop69_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're doing the right thing in giving her the space she needs. But she is a girl you have to remember that, they work in their own ways. She may have not known it that she was leading you on, and the fact that she is only 13 and you being 15 might scare her too. I think if you just try and strengthen your friend ship then you can talk things out more. But if she needs time, give her time, don't seem too eager or anything. Best of luck
2006-09-13 22:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by markmaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's scared. my advice is to give her some space and give her some time. things might work out. stay friends with her and let her know that your there for her. be patient. these things take time. but, if she ends up hooking up with other guys, then you need to let her go and find someone else. don't just wait there while she's with other people. that's not fair to you. good luck!
2006-09-13 22:51:01 · answer #3 · answered by Damon ♥ Elena 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have hit all the branches falling from the stupid tree. You asked that question 5 times already over the past week.
2006-09-13 22:46:57 · answer #4 · answered by panty_splash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obsessing about this. I have read this same question several days in a row. Please find something else to occupy yourself with. Not for me or any of us here.....but for YOU.
You are only 15 years old. If you do this now, what and how will you live with real dissappointments when you are older? Please, for you, find a way to stop obsessing over this girl. Leave it alone, and let it unfold naturally.
2006-09-13 22:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you are in the "friend zone" wheter you like it or not she is never going to go out with and unless you are direct. What to say: (Whatever the girls name is) I really like you and want to go out. Otherwise its the "I just wanna be friends" for life.
2006-09-13 22:48:43 · answer #6 · answered by Head Master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just ask her, straight out. shes the only one who will be able to tell you the truth. evry girl is diff. so if i tell you that i think something she might be diff. from me & think a completely diff. thing. just dont stress about it and ask her even if u are scared to hear something u dont really want 2 hear. hope it works out. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-13 22:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by Lorena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry im too lazy to read all that but thanks for the two points ^^
try making the question a lil shorter so u can get help
2006-09-13 22:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, doesn't sound like she likes you like that. She wouldn't've blatantly stated otherwise if she did.
2006-09-13 22:48:37 · answer #9 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋