I just got dumped on Aug. 28th and I am really wanting to go out on a date. I think I'm a very attractive man, but when I flirt with women they seem to respond negatively by giving me bad looks, ignoring me completely, or they'll be even more cruel, and give me their phone number with no intention of ever wanting to get to know me, whatsoever. I'm 23, I'll be 24 Sept. 23rd. First question, where are some places I can go to meet a quality woman? Second question, ladies, honest answers, what can I say to get a positive reaction when I flirt with her? Give me a few different examples if you could. I am trying to learn how to talk to you beautiful creatures, hopefully you'll take that as a good man trying to find a good woman. Third and last question, what are some huge signs to look for if she is AND if she isn't interested. I don't just want to get laid, I really want to be in a meaningful relationship. Any help ladies?
2006-09-13 15:33:12 · 8 answers · asked by chrissexysmile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, Im 33 so I hope thats not too old..lol
I am still single and dating a younger man so I thought this seemed approporite.
I think the first thing to remember is putting yourself out there in this way is tough, but a reality. In order to find the right one, you have to keep asking. There really are no magic lines or answers, even though folks will try and give you them. Simply not every women will respond to the same thing the same way.
Just be youself, smile and make eye contact. The bigget thing is just trying and not taking the "no's" to badly. Trust me its those women out there single and looking that will be thrilled when they finally find you! When you talk to them, be honest, be yourself, ask her about herself...let her talk. If she thinks you are trying to hard, she will not respond. Start a coverstaion then let her get back to her friends. Tell her you will be over with your friends if you wants to talk some more....she will find you if she wants to talk more.
2006-09-13 15:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by my1215boo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no such description. Women, like men, transgendered, etc., vary greatly from individual to individual. There are some out there who are doing the whole high-powered business woman thing, and there are some who are tied up in some guy's basement begging to be spanked. There are some who want to save the world, there are some who rather eat potato chips. There are some who are brilliant, there are some who couldn't find their way out of a paper bag. Even attempting to describe a stereotypical type of person is demeaning to such a person. This sort of consideration is a disservice to "modern american women from age 24-30".
2016-03-27 00:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are very attractive! Happy Birthday coming up this month! Getting your hair cut is a interesting place. A hair salon not a barber. Church regularly isn't bad.I personally think bars are not good, You have to watch what you get into there.I don't know about your work place but that sometimes isn't bad if you have a chance to meet people.You seem like a very nice person. Keep it up you will meet someone but always be yourself. Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-13 15:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by creature 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you`re a really good looking man too. I don`t understand why it would be hard for you to meet women unless you come off like a total jerk or something. Things that would make me react that way to a guy would be if he was obviously trying to get me into bed, if he was really into himself( blabbing on and on about how many women he has dated/slept with, talking about how good looking everyone always tells him he is, bragging about every accomplishment he has ever achieved, and going on about how good he is at this, that and everything)or if he was giving me creepy looks like staring too hard at me, looking directly at my breasts for too long, or this one look guys get that i can`t quite explain....they obviously think they are giving you a sexy look, but it`s coming off as " I`m gonna rape you and tie you up in my basement." Also, if a guy is acting too clingy or needy or desperate it sends off alarms and makes me shut down and ignore him. I like it when guys talk to me and they seem casual, nice and interested in me, but not too interested at first. Just very casual and comfortable. I can`t tell you what to say verbatim because that would depend on the circumstances(where you met, what you were doing, what her behavior was like, etc. etc.) And I`m afraid I also have no idea where to find good quality people to meet. I had given up ever finding "the one" and as a last ditch effort I went to a dating site on the web and found the love of my life. What happened with us is very rare and I don`t reccomend it. There are a LOT of freaks out there and I think 95% of them were interested and trying to hook up with me. It was a total miracle that I found my perfect match that way. Don`t give up, though! You will find her. It could take a long time or it could be tomorrow, but it will happen for you. I`m positive of that. I hope I was able to help you a little. :-)
2006-09-13 16:09:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ex-Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you are only 23, why are you so ready to be in a committed relationship. You have your whole life ahead of you. If you are interested in a female, ask to buy her a drink. You will always get a good response with that. Just be yourself, don't come with those lame lines you guys like to put on us women. You will find somebody out there for you. Just be patient.
2006-09-13 15:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by elementsoflife06 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you're just meeting them at the wrong time...or maybe your approach is completely off...say for instance you're in a bookstore and you see her and you think you might want to call sometime...look at what she's pursing on the bookshelves with out being stalker-ish. Then you could ask if her if the book is any good or if you have good timing with jokes you could say something lightly funny and see what she says. This may open a door to light conversation. If she doesn't look at you or answers your questions with one word answers, chances are that you might want to step back. But don't seem like your trying to get her number, take an interest in her...oh and don't be overwhelmingly forward about her looks...most times its disrepectful,but it depends on who it is...hope this helps...
2006-09-13 15:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you want to meet a girl for a meaningful relationship, don't flirt.
be yourself and approach them appropriateley and friendly like.
you can meet them anywhere.....there is no specific or perfect place....though the better places where you get more time to socialize with people and are not in a hurry are shool, work, library, gym, park, etc.
2006-09-13 15:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow. I can see why you are only looking for women aged 24-30 to answer this.
What cheese. I see your problem. Good luck with that.
2006-09-13 15:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by burpolicious 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋